rayray1992 Posted May 12, 2016 Posted May 12, 2016 Hi there everyone I basically put another thread up in the break forum, and my ex basically we was together for like 6 months, only a short time but it was one of those relationships where you fall for each other pretty hard etc etc And she basically had a lot of health issues, family issues and university pressure and then she ended it with me saying she can't take the pressure of a relationship we still spoke the 2 weeks after we broke up , and she told me she misses me but feels its the best for us both, I sent her a voicemail and pretty much put my cards on the table telling her I want to try again. She listened to it and then wanted space I said fine and then she popped up and asked me to call her and she told me that basically she doesn't want to get back and shes a lot happier without the pressure of a relationship , and obviously that sucked and she said she doesnt want to lose me from her life but I told her that i can't be friends with someone I love So i've deleted her number, taken her off facebook, taken off all the pictures and w.e and just gonna have to get on with things Right thing to do? 1
bummer Posted May 12, 2016 Posted May 12, 2016 Perfect choice to be the adult. Sorry for your predicament. Honor her statement with nc. Maybe she will come back but it will come from them not you. 2
Author rayray1992 Posted May 12, 2016 Author Posted May 12, 2016 Thank you for the quick reply Yeah it sucks but i've been in the position where i was all beggy and pathetic and i refuse to let myself be that person again
Author rayray1992 Posted May 12, 2016 Author Posted May 12, 2016 any tips for coping as I know there will be bad days and good days
BelleSkye Posted May 12, 2016 Posted May 12, 2016 any tips for coping as I know there will be bad days and good days Every time you feel the need to contact her - come to Loveshack FIRST and read the No Contact guidelines. Read everyone else's problem with breaking no contact - be constantly reminded how it hurts when you break no contact.... Self Improvement - concentrate on that now. Read that book you always wanted to, build that boat or chair you always wanted to, travel...write a book, learn to play the guitar...choose something that makes you more interesting. KEEP BUSY without her. Be strong. 1
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