Itsjustadream Posted May 12, 2016 Posted May 12, 2016 Okay, maybe we're crazy. No I know we are but, what happened was the distance was killing my bf and he knew I was sad and depressed about things done about him. Like he wouldn't call as often because he's busy and we stopped the Netflix and skyping. So one day ago he ended we both cried, he was my first and I knew it was a mistake but with the problems for me it was clarity and time I needed. He wanted to be friends so we were but I didn't speak to him all day because I had school and getting over him would be tough if I didn't have time alone. Well needless to say I messaged him afterward it was strange but I missed him. Then we spoke about how confused he was about the distance but he regretted it and made a huge mistake so we got back together. After a day. I still love him but its just weird, like am I starting new? how do I fix this? Did I get back with him because I was alone? I love him so much but I'm just afraid of screwing up or not keeping his interest. New ideas besides just skyoing, watching movies and playing on apps? Something new and fun? He said he could visit but he only has enough for the ride there so I could get him the rest of the way. And I've been with him seven months I trust that if I gave that money for the ticket to him he would pay for my flight back once I see him.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 12, 2016 Posted May 12, 2016 Before I give any feedback, I'll ask the question I always ask in these types of threads: Have you ever met him in person? 1
Author Itsjustadream Posted May 12, 2016 Author Posted May 12, 2016 Not yet, we've been together seven months but agreed to meet sometime in the next 1-3 months since we have time around then. One of his bigger problems was the fact he believed we wouldn't meet or it would be too hard to spend money visiting later on.
justwhoiam Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 You're only 16, it's OK if you don't understand how things work or you're confused. People feel the same way even in their 40s or 50s! The only suggestion I can give you is: enjoy life, go out and have fun. This is your youth and you won't get another one. The good memories of your current age will stay with you for the rest of your life, so make the most of it. He said he'll come visit you soon. You'll be able to see if you're really into him or your feelings are mild. You'll then have some nice time with him or move on with your life and new experiences.
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