Natalie8 Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 Would you translate this is him wanting to try things again? We dated last year for a short while, he broke it off, no contact for a while, came across him on a dating site, sent a funny message ( not about us) he responded, we exchanged a few messages about what we both have been up to since. He then said this ' i wish we never stoped dating back then'. I said i wish that too. I thought he meant that he wanted to date again. I know..i should just ask him. I did. ('Does this mean you would like us to go on a date again?') No response yet.But i was just wondering whether that makes me look like a loser now since it was him who broke up.
Author Natalie8 Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 He felt i was more far ahead emotionally
Gaeta Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 In February you wrote about him and you were considering offering him a hook-up. Did that happen?
stillafool Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 ('Does this mean you would like us to go on a date again?') No response yet.But i was just wondering whether that makes me look like a loser now since it was him who broke up. No you do not look like a loser for asking. However if he were really interested in dating you he would have jumped at the chance and gotten right back to you with a response. The fact that he hasn't shows it was all just talk. Keep moving on.
Author Natalie8 Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 That was a different guy. (The hookup did happen and it was crap but it made me get over him)
Gaeta Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 That was a different guy. (The hookup did happen and it was crap but it made me get over him) Ok thanks. And if this guy here is interested in dating you again can you control your cligniness?
Author Natalie8 Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 Yeah, i would be different. Most recently i dated a guy who was really clingy and it was such a turnoff- so i got a taste of my own medicine, so to speak. However, i dont know what he meant by what he said. Maybe just a pang of nostalgia.. I certainly wouldnt say something like that to someone i broke up with unless i wanted to try again..otherwise it is just messing with peoples heads.
smackie9 Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 I think he just misses you but doesn't revisit how things were.
Gaeta Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 However, i dont know what he meant by what he said. Maybe just a pang of nostalgia.. I certainly wouldnt say something like that to someone i broke up with unless i wanted to try again..otherwise it is just messing with peoples heads. I think you should be open and forward and tel him you are interested in seeing him again and to take things slower, smoother than last time. You just got 1 life to live. Don't live it on 'what will people think'.
Author Natalie8 Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 He just responded to my message. I asked him if this means he would like us to see each other again. His response: 'Yes, it does. How do you feel about it?' 1
Gaeta Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 He just responded to my message. I asked him if this means he would like us to see each other again. His response: 'Yes, it does. How do you feel about it?' There you go :-) Enjoy your date!
stillafool Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 That was a different guy. (The hookup did happen and it was crap but it made me get over him) Isn't this the guy you are talking about in your original post?
Author Natalie8 Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 Sorry, what do you mean original? My first ever post last year?
stillafool Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 Sorry, what do you mean original? My first ever post last year? No, post #1 in this thread.
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