jameel.c Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 I was conversing with this girl, and halfway through the conversation she indicated that she thought "I was too mature for her". I was baffled, does she feel we are not compatible and that me and her wouldn't work, or am I over reacting?
smackie9 Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 Too mature is another way of her saying you are boring. Sorry. 2
preraph Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 Sounds like she was just being honest. At least she did not say "You are too old" or "You are too boring." She was at least mature enough to just say "mature." Is there any chance she was just kidding or giving you a hard time? 2
sandylee1 Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 What are your ages ? Perhaps she just wants fun and you're thinking about the future or your just more serious than she is. Ask her if she wants to end things following her comment. 2
Author jameel.c Posted May 10, 2016 Author Posted May 10, 2016 What are your ages ? Perhaps she just wants fun and you're thinking about the future or your just more serious than she is. Ask her if she wants to end things following her comment. I am 18 she's 17. I doubt it, we were talking fine, then she just came out with that random comment so I don't know.
Author jameel.c Posted May 10, 2016 Author Posted May 10, 2016 Sounds like she was just being honest. At least she did not say "You are too old" or "You are too boring." She was at least mature enough to just say "mature." Is there any chance she was just kidding or giving you a hard time? Nah, I am only a year older than her. I am 18 and she's 17. So I don't think age would have anything to do with her comment. And I was making her laugh throughout the day so I don't know why she'd come up with such a random comment like that.
Author jameel.c Posted May 10, 2016 Author Posted May 10, 2016 Yes, she wants to break up with you. Okay then.
Author jameel.c Posted May 10, 2016 Author Posted May 10, 2016 What are your ages ? Perhaps she just wants fun and you're thinking about the future or your just more serious than she is. Ask her if she wants to end things following her comment. And she is always talking about the future about what she has planned, so it just seemed weird to me. :/
Author jameel.c Posted May 10, 2016 Author Posted May 10, 2016 Too mature is another way of her saying you are boring. Sorry. To be honest I was making her laugh throughout the day, so it just seemed a bit weird for her to unexpectedly make such a comment.
basil67 Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 No, I don't think it's a breakup. If it was, she would have started with something like "I don't think this is working out...." 1
d0nnivain Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 17 year old girls say a lot of random things & they don't always mean what they say (unless they are saying No, then take people at their word). Anyway, perhaps she just wants you to loosen up. Relax & chill. Do something silly & playful with her. 1
Author jameel.c Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 No, I don't think it's a breakup. If it was, she would have started with something like "I don't think this is working out...." Maybe. I don't know. The "I am too mature" comment might be an indication she finds me too boring. :/
Author jameel.c Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 17 year old girls say a lot of random things & they don't always mean what they say (unless they are saying No, then take people at their word). Anyway, perhaps she just wants you to loosen up. Relax & chill. Do something silly & playful with her. Yeah you're most probably right. I might need to have a more laid-back approach with her. Maybe she finds me too boring I don't know. :/
OnlyHonesty Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 You appear to be looking for logic where there is none...
Author jameel.c Posted May 11, 2016 Author Posted May 11, 2016 You appear to be looking for logic where there is none... What do you mean?
GR4 Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 I was conversing with this girl, and halfway through the conversation she indicated that she thought "I was too mature for her". I was baffled, does she feel we are not compatible and that me and her wouldn't work, or am I over reacting? Are you in a relationship with this girl? Because the way you refer to her as "this girl" makes me think that maybe you'd like to be but you're not. Have you slept together? Kissed? What's the deal here?
sandylee1 Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 You guys are so young. Have you thought to ask her what she meant by that? As in what is it you did or said to make her say you're too mature for her. Perhaps the other guys she's dated were immature. Apart from what she said, what are her actions telling you?
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