rocksocks Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 (edited) [22M] Met a new girl a few weeks ago through a coworker. Anyways we've talked some, and recently, we've been hanging out a lot. For example, we went to the movies this Friday, would've hung out Saturday night (she thought I didn't invite her out downtown, I thought it was implied because I was talking to her about it, she said she would've come if she knew earlier [like midnight at this point]), and then hung out three separate times Sunday (brunch in the morning, pool in afternoon, Game of Thrones that evening). All of these things were already things I had planned with friends, so it wasn't a 1-1 situation. That being said, these were with "my" friends, as in she only knows them through me (the coworker who introduced us also doesn't know them), and doesn't hang or talk with them outside of when I invite her. So essentially, does the fact that she is constantly willing to hang out mean anything? I know there are many other indicators of interest/disinterest to look for, just asking about this in particular. Edited May 10, 2016 by rocksocks
d0nnivain Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 It tells me you are too casual & non-committal. "Hanging out" is a personal pet peeve of mine in an early potential romance. Bite the bullet ask the woman on an honest to goodness date. Use that very word -- date -- in the ask. Stop being evasive. Rant over -- I think her showing up & wanting to show up is a good thing. Now take the guess work out of this. 1
phineas Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 I don't "hang out" with women I want to date. Unless we are getting romantic then i can care less what it's called.
truth_seeker Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 I'm going to make a statement I believe is 100% true. No man wants to be friends with a woman (unless he's gay). When I see a guy orbiting, hanging out, whatever you want to call it with a woman... it's all an effort to get in her pants. I do not have any female friends. There's no point unless I am interested in them... but then again, I would tell them straight up I'm not interested in being friends. It's love me long time or hit the bricks. As for a woman. It's a bit different. If she wants to hang out with a guy all the time... it's either A) she wants him to make a move on her. B) She just wants his attention and nothing else. Want to know what the answer is OP? Make a move on her. You'll get your answer. 1
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