joemarriage Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 My xgf and I were together just under 6 years. She has been there for everything from my divorce to going through cancer treatment. We didn't meet until after the papers were filed in court. There was no cheating in marriage and she wouldn't be official gf until things were finished in court. We broke up over an argument about our kids fighting. She's got a 9 year old son my son is 10. I have been in her sons life longer than his father was around. His dad is drug and alcohol dependent and serving time in jail right now. We've been broken up 3 weeks as of yesterday, Mother's Day. I had already bought a gift for her son to give to her. She told me not to give it her. We talk and text everyday. She text me Good Morning every day and good night every night. She tells me no way we will ever get back together. She still stopped by on Mother's Day and we had sex and talked. I just don't know if still fighting for her back is the right thing. It sucks losing your best friend and you gf all in the same day.
jen1447 Posted May 11, 2016 Posted May 11, 2016 Eject! Makes no sense to fight for someone who vehemently tells you its over while having sex w/you and sending all the usual partner vibe signals. She's yanking you every direction at once and you'll pull apart before long. Don't allow it. 1
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