coachjohnny Posted May 9, 2016 Posted May 9, 2016 [COLOR=#000000]Been on 2 dates with this girl so far. she is "married" but separated is what she told me. married for 6 years and seperated last year they do live together though. she had mentioed to me her lease ends in july so im not sure if shes still there becuase she cant get out of her lease or what. they are clearly separated though. in fact on our last date she sent a pic of us to her mom who said "omg hes kind of cute!" Weve been talking since february. I know 2 dates isnt much but shes 2 hours away and is in full time nursing school. We are seeing others to. I really like her and am trying to figure out what to do. We have slept with each other once (it was awkward cuz i couldnt control it lol) We are planning on going on a third date here withihn the next few weeks once she gets out of school (she said shed love to go on a third date with me) I did come off clingy once like back in march but we both moved past it Our last date we were talking and she said "i dont want a relationship with you, its not you, its the fact that theres distance right now and with work and shcool i dont have time for anyone" I asked her about it again that night and she said "i have 5 weeks of school left then i dont know what will happen. i dont wanna say yes or no because i dont know honestly. i will say that you are attractive and i do like you though, i just cant promise anything" Last night we were texting and joking around and she called me adorable. We talk everyday somewhat. Probabblly 5 to 6 days a week we have some sort of contact. I havent discussed any relationship stuff with her since our last date (which was april 20th) I do think she likes that fact that im not just looking for sex. she has talked before about how guys have just hounded her for sex and when she declines they just forget about her what on earth should i do[/COLOR]
d0nnivain Posted May 9, 2016 Posted May 9, 2016 You should leave her alone until she finds new living arrangements. It's not a good plan for you to get involved with anybody who is still married and living with their spouse.
Gaeta Posted May 9, 2016 Posted May 9, 2016 She is a waste of your time. She can say all she wants that she is separated but if she is still living under the same roof as her ex, she is NOT. Being separated means being separated. Once she moves out she will taste her real freedom and you'll be long gone. She will need to date and enjoy her new found freedom, she won't jump back into a relationship with you. Right now all she is doing is using you for distraction and entertainment. 1
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