Missbreakup Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 (edited) I was the rebound girl after his wife cheated on him. I was also the single mum who just lost her mother. So I was prime candidate for wat was ahead. Our relationship was toxic. I have broke up with him but need to stay away long enough to get over him. We were together 5 years. He lied constantly. No major things from what I know. Just porn, where he was and who with etc. He admitted his lies where a problem but he couldn't give me the reassurance I needed to trust him. I was call a nag, crazy and told that I over reacted. In recent times he blamed me for him lying after I threw him out. They were consequences for him crossing my boundary. I'm fed up with the whole thing now. He blames me for his depression and I am sick of overcompensating to keep the balance. My problem is that although I'm strong I care for him and I always want back with him first. And it's me begging him. I need to break the cycle Edited May 8, 2016 by Missbreakup 1
Satu Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 1. Get some counselling to help you understand why you keep putting yourself back into something thats bad for you. 2. You'll never have anything better until you really realise that you deserve something better. That means really knowing and believing that you deserve something better. Its doable, so do it. Take care. 2
Author Missbreakup Posted May 8, 2016 Author Posted May 8, 2016 Thanks Satu. I believe I deserve better. I think I will try some counselling :-) 1
gimlynick Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 You've been 5 years together. That's not a rebound anymore! It means that he cared about you, but now doesn't feel like caring/loving/having you anymore. You will heal from this! Take care
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