fkfkj Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 (edited) I went on a date a few days ago with this guy I met with on Tinder. We got along really well - had a few drinks in the pub, chilled in the park together afterwards. Date itself lasted about 5 hours, which is the longest date I've ever had lol. I THOUGHT he was into me - he seemed very attentive and touchy, and ticked all the body language boxes lol. We didn't kiss at the end (which I regret doing), but we had a very nice drawn out hug. I messaged him after, and he said he had a really nice time etc. We've been speaking on and off since but nowhere near as much as we did than before we met (it was literally constantly for about a week which is kinda weird... but still), and he hasn't brought up seeing me again I JUST CAN'T TELL IF HE LIKES ME. I'm also a guy so it's difficult in situations like this, as there aren't as many 'rules' applied to gay dating. I keep thinking if he DIDN'T like me then he wouldn't still be messaging me, but why hasn't he asked me out again? Maybe he just likes me as a friend? To be honest, I just wanna know if he likes me, or if I've been friendzoned. How do I bring that up without seeming too full on? I don't want to leave it too long. I DO feel comfortable enough to ask him straight but I'm not sure how to put it exactly. Lol I feel like a child right now. Any advice would be great. Edited May 8, 2016 by fkfkj
d0nnivain Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 I think he likes you. Why not ask him out on another date? then you will know for sure if he says yes.
smackie9 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 Speaking as a woman one thing I know for sure is men do need you to be direct (hah or you wouldn't be here). He is probably wondering if you like him too! I agree you should ask him out on another date, but don't just ask him, tell him where you would like to take him, like to dinner at one of your favorite places or try some place new. If you put some effort and thought into the date, that will show you have a strong interest in him...and tell him you regretted not kissing him......kiss him!!
Author fkfkj Posted May 8, 2016 Author Posted May 8, 2016 Speaking as a woman one thing I know for sure is men do need you to be direct (hah or you wouldn't be here). He is probably wondering if you like him too! I agree you should ask him out on another date, but don't just ask him, tell him where you would like to take him, like to dinner at one of your favorite places or try some place new. If you put some effort and thought into the date, that will show you have a strong interest in him...and tell him you regretted not kissing him......kiss him!! Good advice. I'm not USUALLY the one doing the chasing when it comes to dating - so I'm a lil rusty Guess there's only one way to find out if he likes me right? 1
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