Surf8181 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 I just recently know her during my cousin wedding but didn't talk too much. She is single and most of her friends are girls. She is my cousin friend and my cousin asked me to send her back home. So I send her alone in my car and what we talk were just direction to her home and after reaching her place we exchange goodbye and I left. I got her number because I need to help some things with her during the wedding. She left early and didn't get a chance to tell her. So the only way to asked her out or tell that I like her is by texting. So what should I text her? And what should I do? 1
d0nnivain Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 Why is your only option texting? You know her phone #, call her. Does the voice feature on one of your phones not work? Just call & ask her to meet you for coffee or a drink . . . something casual & very public. Since you already know where she lives & you both come with your cousin's blessing (i.e. neither of you are serial killers), you can offer to pick her up. Do not be phased if she insists on meeting you. Do not announce that you like her. It's implied by your invitation to a date. The announcement is just awkward. 2
Author Surf8181 Posted May 8, 2016 Author Posted May 8, 2016 Hmmm.... Ok. But what if I text? Is there any disadvantage? 1
d0nnivain Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 I can't answer you about the disadvantages of text because I am probably at least a generation older then you are so the cultural norms shifted. Me, personally I would be offended if some guy texted me because it's a cop out & a chicken way of approaching somebody. I HATE texting. That said, times have changed & other people's opinions are that it's more polite to text because texting is less intrusive. I think it's just lazy & again done by people who don't have the self confidence or social skills to talk on the phone. Do what feels right for you but do not announce that you like her. And get this from communication with a device in between you to a real world actual meet, live date as soon as possible. 1
Erik30 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 Don't tell her you like her, that's almost never a good idea, and besides... you barely know her. Just ask her out. I also think texting her is fine. 1
Satu Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 "Hi. How are you?" "Good. Me too." "Would you like to x, on y evening?" "Thats great. I'll call you later."
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