ForgiveNForget Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 alright ill try to make this as short as possible so we broke up 2 months ago. she broke it off cuz i lashed out on her over a stupid conversation. anyways when she was calling it quits i told her that ive gotten a good job offer overseas and i might go take it cuz she was honestly the only thing holding me back cuz then i wont be able to be with her. It wasnt a good break up it got nasty at some points of the conversations. i went no contact and didnt even try to take her back as i really wanted to take the job offer. what has really helped me with moving on is the fact that i know im gonna be leaving the country and there is no way for us to be together. When we broke up she told me that shes blocking me everywhere even on her phone she did cuz at some point messages stopped getting delivered (iphone ). she even blocked me on twitter and facebook. Recently about 4 weeks ago she unblocked me on facebook which i didnt really look that much into. So im moving first week of june and i really didnt want to leave things with her on a bad note and i recently checked that im not blocked on facebook so i thought lets test the waters. stupid i know but i have no intention of getting back with her cuz im moving 100%. So i text her lol, the normal hey how are you, keep in mind i was blocked on her phone too. So message got delivered and in 10 seconds she replied back with a ? and then i said lol is that all a question mark? she then went off on me and said oh your done whoring around now and you decide to hit me up. i honestly didt know what to say back but i said i just wanted to check up on you and see how you doin. then she says go check up on the hoes in youur phone and just kept going off saying we are done and you wanna come back after 2 months and 5 p***ies. then here i said i just wanted to say hi and see how you have been doing. your clearly still angry and mad at me. im not here to try to take you back as im moving in june. i just didnt want us to leave things on a bad note but i guess thats not gonna happen. then she brought up girls again and just ended bad lol. I dont get it its been 2 months people forget and move on and i know she is the type to just forget things but why is she so mad still. any thoughts? 1
B345T Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 You gotta do yourself the favor and move on homie, she obviously hasn't healed from the wounds of a heartbreak and still feels like you're in the wrong. Some people are just nasty like that do yourself the favor and ignore her completely and block her on all social media for your own mental and emotional well being and move on. Don't let her win because with woman they want to see you suffer it's really messed up but that's how they work. Not everyone is nice like you and humble. Some people are weird and you have to take it for what it is. Trust me it will be better for you in the end and for her so she can learn a lesson about being respectful and more appreciative for the people that come into her life. 1
hippychick3 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 Not sure the full background of your breakup. But given the information you provided, if you really wanted to leave things on a better note, you should have said the following: "I just want to apologize for my behavior before I leave the country. There's no excuse for cheating, and I know I was wrong for doing so. You deserve better than that." That would have gone over far better than "hey" and "lol". 2
Jabron1 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 alright ill try to make this as short as possible so we broke up 2 months ago. she broke it off cuz i lashed out on her over a stupid conversation. anyways when she was calling it quits i told her that ive gotten a good job offer overseas and i might go take it cuz she was honestly the only thing holding me back cuz then i wont be able to be with her. It wasnt a good break up it got nasty at some points of the conversations. i went no contact and didnt even try to take her back as i really wanted to take the job offer. what has really helped me with moving on is the fact that i know im gonna be leaving the country and there is no way for us to be together. When we broke up she told me that shes blocking me everywhere even on her phone she did cuz at some point messages stopped getting delivered (iphone ). she even blocked me on twitter and facebook. Recently about 4 weeks ago she unblocked me on facebook which i didnt really look that much into. So im moving first week of june and i really didnt want to leave things with her on a bad note and i recently checked that im not blocked on facebook so i thought lets test the waters. stupid i know but i have no intention of getting back with her cuz im moving 100%. So i text her lol, the normal hey how are you, keep in mind i was blocked on her phone too. So message got delivered and in 10 seconds she replied back with a ? and then i said lol is that all a question mark? she then went off on me and said oh your done whoring around now and you decide to hit me up. i honestly didt know what to say back but i said i just wanted to check up on you and see how you doin. then she says go check up on the hoes in youur phone and just kept going off saying we are done and you wanna come back after 2 months and 5 p***ies. then here i said i just wanted to say hi and see how you have been doing. your clearly still angry and mad at me. im not here to try to take you back as im moving in june. i just didnt want us to leave things on a bad note but i guess thats not gonna happen. then she brought up girls again and just ended bad lol. I dont get it its been 2 months people forget and move on and i know she is the type to just forget things but why is she so mad still. any thoughts? I don't know why, but your story made me laugh a lot. I think it's your blase attitude. It's exactly the right attitude to have. Don't take any of this crap seriously. Are you sure you were contacting her 'just to see how she was', or were you expecting a little something something? Look forward to your new job, and try not to get dragged into drama.
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