adrian77 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 We made out for a while he then did other things (won't get graphic) but never got arroused. He said it was because it was all about pleasing me and that is why he wasn't. Should I believe that?
Beachguy Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 That's not common. FYI. He should be or he's got low t
basil67 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 We made out for a while he then did other things (won't get graphic) but never got arroused. He said it was because it was all about pleasing me and that is why he wasn't. Should I believe that? Well if it was true, it means that he doesn't get aroused when pleasing you. Out of curiosity, why was the sex one sided? Did you not offer, or did he reject your reciprocation?
Author adrian77 Posted May 8, 2016 Author Posted May 8, 2016 I offered and also rubbed if but he said it was about me. I just wonder if he wasn't turned on at all.
Author adrian77 Posted May 8, 2016 Author Posted May 8, 2016 I offered and rubbed it but he still didn't get hard and said it was all about me. This went on for like 45 minutes....I couldn't really relax though.
Alamo657 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 We made out for a while he then did other things (won't get graphic) but never got arroused. He said it was because it was all about pleasing me and that is why he wasn't. Should I believe that? Yes for men who developped the "i should please her" mentality it can get problematic to get aroused the first times when we don't know if the person likes sex with us Of course it could also mean he masturbates too much or maybe you're fat and ugly (joke inside) Who knows ?
Author adrian77 Posted May 8, 2016 Author Posted May 8, 2016 Well I'm not thin (not huge but extra padding I'm working on getting rid of) but I'm clean and fixed up nicely for him and we have known each other a long time.
Jabron1 Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 Yes for men who developped the "i should please her" mentality it can get problematic to get aroused the first times when we don't know if the person likes sex with us Don't understand this. Of course it could also mean he masturbates too much Only if he knocked one out before the date - which would be incredibly stupid. or maybe you're fat and ugly (joke inside) It's possible, but very rare. I can only think of two occasions in my entire life where I got to the point of having sex with a girl, and didn't get it up because I didn't really fancy her. Much more likely is that he was very drunk, or he has some type of dysfunction.
Phillip Posted May 8, 2016 Posted May 8, 2016 We made out for a while he then did other things (won't get graphic) but never got arroused. He said it was because it was all about pleasing me and that is why he wasn't. Should I believe that? Maybe he is a submissive. If he was not interested he would not have even tried . Was it just a one night stand and you never saw him again? Did he comeback again? Is he still in communication with you? Does he wish to keep in touch? Wish you luck with whatever happens next.
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