connormo Posted May 7, 2016 Posted May 7, 2016 So I'm a 22 year old male on vacation with my parents (celebrating university graduation, woot) and I'm coming to realize: it's IMPOSSIBLE for me to meet new people!!!? The whole time on the trip I'm desperately thinking to myself: wow look at all these lucky guys with attractive women by their sides..' ... And then there's me.. Lone wolf, unable to meet new women (without the use of tinder or online dating first). I mean back home once I talk to a girl online I can usually meet her with confidence (although I Haven't landed one yet). I could honestly care less about making new friends (I barely even can tolerate the ones I know and (love?); is this normal?) and in terms of women; I don't LIKE hookups or anything-that's not what I'm looking for. I'm just looking to expand my social skills at this point... As you can see.. My entire view on social skills are so contradictory, sometimes I have no idea WTF I want!!! Sometimes I love being alone, other times I get mind-numbingly lonely... But in the end I think I just want love. Nevertheless...HOW do I go about meeting new people? I think the initial step is honestly the hardest part for me
d0nnivain Posted May 7, 2016 Posted May 7, 2016 Try joining a group or club that does something you are interested in. You will meet new people at your new job too. Congrats on the graduation! 1
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