Reitteg813 Posted May 7, 2016 Posted May 7, 2016 (edited) So recently met this girl and so far from what I've seen shes actually a girl I could see myself dating. And that says a lot since I'm extremely picky. We hung out Saturday, Sunday and Monday, which really was a mistake, thats too much too soon. Saturday was our first time ever hanging out. She just came over and we really just sat and hung out and talked for almost 2 hours. Sunday ended with us making out in the car after I dropped her off back home after we got lunch. Monday she wanted me to come over, I was very hesitant cause I didn't think 3 days in a row would be a good idea. I just went over and hung out at her place with her roommates and we just watched TV but still ended in us making out again once her roommates went to bed. We talked again the following day like we normally do, but not quite as much. I told her my schedule was clear to go to yoga with her on Saturday since she really wanted me to come and she said "Yay! blah blah blah...ill let you know :)" texted most of the day, her texts seemed a bit shorter but not anything crazy. Wednesday she didn't text as much and texts got shorter, and she ALWAYS initiates the texting and this time I did. And then Thursday morning I wished her good luck on her exams, she immediately texts back saying thank you. We didn't talk all day, for 12 hours, and then she texts me out of no where at almost 10 PM saying goodnight. She used to snapchat me several times throughout the day, even on those days we didnt talk as much and her texts got shorter she'd still snapchat me a few times, and then today (Friday) she has snapchatted me once but we haven't texted or talked at all. So, I was confused why she got short all of a sudden after us talking so much all week and hanging out all weekend and having a great time. I assumed maybe I was a rebound cause I know she was with another guy fairly recently, but from what I've seen from her social media they weren't with each other long and don't think in an actual relationship. Or some how loss interest. But I ruled out the lost interest and rebound kinda when she randomly texted me goodnight after not talking all day. She wouldn't do that to just any body. And shes done that before to me. We hadn't texted for like 5 hours and then she randomly texted me goodnight. This is one of my other possible reasons she may be acting different. This girl has gotten straight A's her whole life, she failed her first exam ever last week, she has two jobs, a big senior thesis to write, a project shes working on, classes, and final exams next week. And on top of that her anxiety can be bad. So I'm thinking she may just be very stressed out and trying to stay focused and put me aside for the time being while she finishes up the semester. She was even hesitant to hangout on Saturday because she wanted to go home and do homework and study but instead she came over. And when we text, we end up texting ALL day until one of us goes to bed so she may be trying to avoid that by not texting me. Sounds kinda ridiculous though and I'm just hoping this is the case. The very random goodnight text still confuses me. So...sorry, feels good to get this out lol. But as anyone ever had a girl/guy theyre seeing or their bf/gf get distant during times of extreme stress or finals? I know I shouldnt be thinking about her so much this soon, but like I said I'm so picky and even though I'm talking to 3 other girls right now, this one catches my interest the most by far and this is only the third girl I've ever come across I could actually see dating from what I've seen from her so far. Edited May 7, 2016 by Reitteg813
Author Reitteg813 Posted May 7, 2016 Author Posted May 7, 2016 (edited) How old are you both? I'm 23 she's 20 Makes me wonder if that goodnight text was a mistake and was meant for someone else. But we hadn't talked for 12 hours, usually the only time I text someone by accident which is very rare and j can count on one hand how money times Ive done it, is when I'm having multiple quick back and forth conversations. On Wednesday when we talked the last thing she said to me was "okay! Thanks hah sorry my mind is in a million places" My plan is to not contact her at all in anyway until she contacts me. Maybe kinda make it feel like she lost me instead and have her wondering why I haven't texted her. On Wednesday I asked her "you good? Any reason for being short with me?" And she just said "right now? I'm just working on my thesis and my head is killing me:(" And I said okay hope it gets better I'll let you go. HVent pushed her at all to hang out, haven't sounded needy texting her, nothing like that at all. That's why I'm thinking she'll feel I bit like what happened with me and her if I just completely walk away without making any attempts We didn't text at all yesterday for the first time since we started talking. She still snapchatted me twice Edited May 7, 2016 by Reitteg813
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