scared shy Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 I just want to take time to rant and rave, all the people I know in person I am upset with, so I figured I could come on here and if nothing else feel better getting everything off of my chest. I went to a party this weekend. Big Mistake!!! These were suppose to be some of my closest friends... The object of my desire called me a prude, he wasn't just joking either, in fact that was the rudest he has ever been to me. I am grossly offended, because I don't hop from bed to bed and actually want to have some feeling put forth before I do jump on someone... that makes me a prude. When pressed further what exactly do you mean by prude? (yes I know what it means, but I wanted to see exactly what was meant by it) I was given the definition of "holding your $hi* hostage" See I would not be so offended but this guy has not been overtly jumping at the chance to screw either... he has not gotten laid in a long time, so who does he think he is? And the kicker of the story, everyone knows I like him... no real big secret anymore. My friend who is in her 30's, so we are not talking some teenie bobber little kid kind of gathering, I thought it was safe to assume that the childish crap would be so prevalent... but she dares him to kiss me. Isn't that too funny, he has to be dared into kissing me... and I am the prude. OK I actually feel better.
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 You sound like you know what you want. He sounds like a class-A a**h***. ... he has not gotten laid in a long time I can't imagine why...
ImaManDammit Posted June 21, 2005 Posted June 21, 2005 My ex girlfriend implied that about me as well. I let it roll off my back. There's alot worse thing people can call you. As long as you have your dignity and self respect, then a prude it is. At least for me.
alphamale Posted June 21, 2005 Posted June 21, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia He sounds like a class-A a**h***. that is why she likes him...
Lil Honey Posted June 21, 2005 Posted June 21, 2005 Alpha: I have a friend who would have said exactly the same thing. I see it a lot as well, so I tend to agree. Scared Shy: The difference between you and that guy is that you are more mature and have some sort of self-respect. He doesn't, so he has to call you something and try to belittle you in order to bring attention to himself. By making you "look undesirable" he is attempting to make himself look good or like a stud-muffin. (LOL) He's a jerk. Move on.
Author scared shy Posted June 22, 2005 Author Posted June 22, 2005 Generally this guy is not a class-A a**h***, but I have to admit I was pretty pissed off. But I do have to say I am going to do the NC thing that most people on here are promoters of, sort my feelings out, and maybe give him time to decide what the difference between him and I is. Like I said he is in the same position, yet I am the prude... at least I can laugh about it today, really I am chuckling as I type thinking "What an immature a$$!"
Guest Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 are you the guy or the girl scared shy? not sure which...
Author scared shy Posted June 28, 2005 Author Posted June 28, 2005 are you the guy or the girl scared shy? not sure which... What does my profile say? I must have said "him" about 12 times in my post... just what are you trying to get at?
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