How to attract girls?

[kevin thomas]

I don't consider myself unattractive, in fact I've been told I'm good-looking quite a lot. But still girls are just not interested in me. I'm guessing its something to do with my personality but I have no idea

[Alamo657]

I don't consider myself unattractive, in fact I've been told I'm good-looking quite a lot. But still girls are just not interested in me. I'm guessing its something to do with my personality but I have no idea

 

Be passionate about 2 socially acceptable activities, have a successful career, have friends you regularly hang out with, be involved into helping your comunity, thats the blueprint of guys women wanna date. Or be a rock star but its harder.

[Larryville]

But still girls are just not interested in me.

 

You are either boring, annoying in person, bad posture, bad body language, poor fashion sense, lack communication skills…

 

I'm guessing it’s something to do with my personality but I have no idea

I’m being blunt and real but you know, you might be in denial but unless we are serious narcissists and are completely incapable of recognizing our own flaws we all know.

 

If you have any real close “legit” friends as them, if they are real friends they will tell you.

 

The fact that you are posting this is one trait, ladies here say it all the time. Confidence is sexy and women can smell the lack of it a mile away…

[PrettyEmily77]

How do you know girls aren't interested in you?

[Jabron1]

How do you know girls aren't interested in you?

 

Very good question.

 

How many girls have you asked out in 2016? (in real life - not online)

[Eternal Sunshine]

1. Have a job.

2. Have a good hygiene.

3. ASK girls out

 

You are probably being passive and waiting for girls to approach you. That's not going to work unless you are very attctrive and/or are rich and successful.

[mortensorchid]

This is a sort of but not really PC thing to say, but what's your weight? I used to be 40 lbs heavier than I am now, I also have had guy and girl friends present and past who used to be fatter as well. People treat you differently when you are overweight / obese. Fact. From strangers to long time friends / family. There is all this talk about loving your body no matter what, but that is absolutely not true. That is compensation talk for the obesity crisis. People are not nice about it - at all. Even one obese person is not nice to another obese person. If this is the case, remember that the world is not going to change, you have to change.

 

If that's not it, then what else?

[mortensorchid]

And another thing - What is your personality? Is it engaging or is it passive? Because women do not like passive men. They like men who talk, men who are sure of themselves, and men who are not afraid to accept a challenge. I remember many years ago I was at a party and I see this man there, for whatever reason I decided to strike up a conversation with him. He wouldn't look me in the eye, he seemed distracted, he only answered "yes/no" questions. He struck me as being not introverted but socially awkward, not interested in much of anything (let alone chatting with me), and ... Not too bright. Later at the same party a woman said to me "Oh you met (name)? I said I chatted with him for a bit. She said "He just can't find a girlfriend, I don't know why!" It was so obvious to me why, did others (let alone him) not see this? I suppose so.

[fitnessfan365]

I think that women tend to be seduced more through social interaction and emotional stimulation. So you can be an extremely good looking guy, but if your social skills/charm are lacking then it won't matter.