My hate for my now exMM!

[LatinGoddess]

I absolutely abhore my exMM. He is such a crybaby. I can't believe him and I'm going to destroy his life as much as he has mine. I'm going to tell his wife. I'm fed up with him.

[LucreziaBorgia]

What happened?

 

**edit**

 

N/M - I just saw some of your other posts. I'm not sure what good telling the W will do. It might make you feel vindicated in the short run, but in the long term it probably won't have the effects you think it will.

[Marshbear]

Originally posted by LatinGoddess

I absolutely abhore my exMM. He is such a crybaby. I can't believe him and I'm going to destroy his life as much as he has mine. I'm going to tell his wife. I'm fed up with him.

 

MM are the best. This forum proves it to me over and over. I am soooooo in love with my MM.

Hail to the MM....

[LatinGoddess]

I do not agree that an MM is the best. Mine truly is an ass. I absolutely can not stand him and I have told him to stay the f*ck out of my life from now on. What a jerk he is. I want him to hurt.

[westernxer]

Women who fall for married men are the most helpless creatures on the planet... besides men who are pussy-whipped.

[LatinGoddess]

You are a jackass and your comment isn't welcome.

[Marie1973]

Western -

 

hahah Hello again. Now why would u say "Women who fall for married men are the most helpless creatures on the planet... " That is soooooooooooooooo untrue it's not funny.

 

I am a 32 year old woman who happened to fall for an older married man. I never planned it, it just happened. You don't plan who you fall in love with & who you don't.

 

I am a very secure woman & no helpless at all. I have a great family & a wonderful life. Just because

I fell in love with a married man doesn't make me "the most helpless creature on the planet".

 

I'm just going to have to ignore that comment. :-)

[New_Wife]

Bah!

 

Latin, you are not an innocent victim here.

 

I know you are in pain because things didn't work the way you wanted them to, but take a moment to HONESTLY look at your part in this. You slept with another woman's husband. You removed your clothing, and intimately connected with one who swore to cleave only unto ANOTHER. And you made those same vows to someone else as well.

 

And now you are mad?

 

Afther the two of you both running ripshod over the most sacred of vows - you are what? Shocked that he can't keep his word to you? Because the person he is lying and cheating with should deserve a better level of honesty than the one he swore before God and Family to love, honor & cherish?

 

Girl, I think you need to stop with the anger. How much of it is really directed at him, and how much of it is a reflection of how you actually feel about your own actions?

 

I suggested before, and I'll say it again - run don't walk to a counselor.

 

Take care.

[westernxer]

What can I say, the truth hurts.

 

Nothing personal, just an observation.

[Mr Spock]

Originally posted by LatinGoddess

I absolutely abhore my exMM. He is such a crybaby. I can't believe him and I'm going to destroy his life as much as he has mine. I'm going to tell his wife. I'm fed up with him.

 

Before I waste precious typing time (carpal tunnel syndrome here I come)

 

Are you for real??

[Marie1973]

Western

 

No i'm not hurting by your comment at all!! :-)

Why would you come on here & say that, you know that you are just going to cause trouble.

 

I'm sure there is something in your life that you did that wasn't right & it just happened.

 

 

No one is perfect!!!

[newbby]

Are you for real??

 

i was wondering myself whether this was a joke

[westernxer]

Originally posted by Marie1973

Western

 

No i'm not hurting by your comment at all!! :-)

Why would you come on here & say that, you know that you are just going to cause trouble.

 

I'm sure there is something in your life that you did that wasn't right & it just happened.

 

 

No one is perfect!!!

 

 

I agree, no one is perfect, but nothing just happens. As long as you admit this to yourself, I'm cool with it. Even if you don't, I'm cool with it. If my comments stir up the pot, I'm cool with it. You're getting this for free, from someone who isn't afraid to speak his mind. If I'm wrong, I'm cool with it, but I don't believe I'm wrong.

 

Nothing just happens... that's the worst excuse I ever heard.

[New_Wife]

Westernxer, I read your message, but I am a little confused about one thing:

 

are you cool with it?

 

[newbby]

westernxr, you just dont understand women

[westernxer]

Originally posted by newbby

westernxr, you just dont understand women

 

Nor do I care to... but I understand the dudes they fall for.

[westernxer]

Originally posted by New_Wife

Westernxer, I read your message, but I am a little confused about one thing:

 

are you cool with it?

 

 

Definitely. But I ain't down with the OPP.

[joodee]

Westernxr,

 

I've read your posts here and there. Of course you are entitled to your opinion, and that you are calling it like you see it. Buy why are posting on this forum? Are you going through something in relationships as well? Is there something I missed? Just curious.

[FolderWife]

Yes! Tell her!

[westernxer]

Originally posted by joodee

Westernxr,

 

I've read your posts here and there. Of course you are entitled to your opinion, and that you are calling it like you see it. Buy why are posting on this forum? Are you going through something in relationships as well? Is there something I missed?

 

You answered your own question before you even asked it.

 

"They that are whole have no need of a physician, but they that are sick..."

[SweetSerenity]

Oh sheesh. Girl have you ever heard of a book called "He's Just Not That Into You"? If you haven't I highly recommend you go out and find it. So what if he lied to you, you are responsible for your own accountability of allowing him to do so, but for some reason I don't think this is it. I liken you to a sullen child that didn't get her way. She was in the sandbox and the sandbox was cozy and fun and you had a great time until your playmate took away your most beloved heightened fun toys and then you decide to throw a fit. Get over yourself. If you really feel telling his wife will work and you'll lose nothing then you couldn't be more wrong. You'll lose more than just your husband.

 

If you're that upset then next time remember not to spread your legs wide open for someone to store their meat. Get a real grip and move on. I tried being nice to you and giving you sound advice and you didn't want that, now I'm fed up from reading your ridiculous childish antics. Get OVER IT ALREADY! JESUS CHRIST.

[westernxer]

Originally posted by SweetSerenity

I tried being nice to you and giving you sound advice and you didn't want that, now I'm fed up from reading your ridiculous childish antics. Get OVER IT ALREADY...

 

Sad, isn't it. Misery loves company.

[SweetSerenity]

I think you're stirring the pot. but whatever works for ya. This chick has some serious issues. We aren't talking about pawns here. We are talking about real people. You guys need to remember that this MM has real feelings and he has a wife that doesn't deserve to be hurt. I sometimes do not like this forum cause its too much bs that goes on in here. I rarely post except when I want to tell someone straight up just how full of **** they are. And this chick is full of ****. She wants to whine about how used she feels yet she let this MM use her bread box to store his meat and now she is all pissy about it. Too damn bad for her.

[TUDOR]

Can't we all just get along!

[SweetSerenity]

Maybe ......I just think she needs a harsh dose of reality and a big wake up call. I mean this chick thinks that she can just toy with other peoples lives and walk up or call the exMM's wife and say "Hi I ****ed your husband and now he won't leave you and be with me I'm pissed", then off she goes on her merry way. Hah! No. She needs to think about the other people in this triangle as well. She says she has a kid and we've all pointed out to her that she could be in jeopardy of losing said kid, yet she has the nerve to say that she is going to tell anyway, this chick is clearly playing with fire and loves to do so. Oh well back to work with me and like a prom dress I'm off!