love1336x Posted May 3, 2016 Posted May 3, 2016 Lately, I feel that it would be much better and productive to talk to a wall about issues in my relationship rather than my girlfriend. I feel when I have a certain issue with her, no matter how nice I come out. It always ends up more trouble than it's actually worth. I would have better results talking to the wall about the issue and the wall would give me better solution. It gets very frustrated to walk around egg shells. I want to talk to her so we can over come the issue. I mean... isn't that's the point of the relationship to be able to talk to your lover? It's making me feel very hurt, and bitter inside to not be able to express how I feel because it "hurts" her feelings, or she takes in a way that I am disrespecting her. We been going to therapy, and I've been taking pointers from the therapist, but she's still the same old person who refuses to change anything about herself. It's like I am listening to HIM. I am trying to do what this mans is telling us what to do! And NOTHING from her. Makes me want to SCREAM. Punch a WALL. SOMETHING! ANYTHING! I am a soda bottle that keeps being shaken, but nobody turning the lid to relieved the pressure! At this point I don't even want to waste the time of the therapist or mine at these pointless one sided session.
Gloria25 Posted May 4, 2016 Posted May 4, 2016 Communication is a "must" in any RL (work, friends, romantic ). If you two can't even communicate, then how long are you going to bang your head on the wall instead of moving past that wall and finding someone more compatible?
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