Fell for a guy & he broke my heart. My stages of mourning

[keiji]

Nothing I said in my original post warranted any of the attacks and insults on me. And I dont see how anyone can read the original post and not see that that too, is ****ed up on his part. I dont see how reading the original post can make someone feel for him when I am the victim, clearly. I also dont see how reading the original post makes people say I dont deserve support like others in this forum, that I am genuinely not kind in my relationships, that I am not compassionate and all these other attacks.

 

I'm not willing to start a pointless give and take with you, but it was you who started calling names when another member expressed a different perspective. All I can gather from your original post is that someone loved you at some point and then stopped loving you. You cannot blame him for not feeling it anymore and if you can't understand that he's a bit difficult to deal with considering he has Aspergers, yes, you should re-evaluate your capability for compassion and sympathy. Other than that, I don't have any more details about what he did so wrong for you to be as angry as you seem. All I can base my opinions on is your initial post. My ex-gf also broke up with me. She probably lied. There was someone else in the picture last time we saw each other. That doesn't make her evil.

[Miss.A]

You keep saying how we dont know anything about the relationship. And that is true. I think most people here want to give you good advice and help you with this situation... but they can only give you their opinion on what they are reading. If we don't know details.. and youre willing to share some more to help us understand better I think that would be beneficial to all of us.

 

What exactly did he do during the break up what made him evil in your eyes? Maybe starting here will give everyone a better picture on whats going on in your mind and in the relationship

[tiredofwasting]

I'm not willing to start a pointless give and take with you, but it was you who started calling names when another member expressed a different perspective. All I can gather from your original post is that someone loved you at some point and then stopped loving you. You cannot blame him for not feeling it anymore and if you can't understand that he's a bit difficult to deal with considering he has Aspergers, yes, you should re-evaluate your capability for compassion and sympathy. Other than that, I don't have any more details about what he did so wrong for you to be as angry as you seem. All I can base my opinions on is your initial post. My ex-gf also broke up with me. She probably lied. There was someone else in the picture last time we saw each other. That doesn't make her evil.

 

I'm done speaking with you. Bye.

[ChickiePops]

It sounds like you gave a lot to this relationship. I'm sorry it didn't work out.

 

Hopefully the rage you are currently feeling will eventually die down so you can move past this and meet someone who is able to give as much back to you as you give to them. It just sounds like your ex wasn't capable of that. I don't think he's evil based on what you've written here..he was just ill equipped to handle a romantic relationship. But I wasn't there so I could be wrong,

 

Also, gently, going off on anyone who doesn't call your ex a bad person is not going to help you. Nobody here is the person you're mad at. You posted this thread to get fresh perspectives on a painful situation and that's exactly what you're getting.

 

I hope you feel better soon..I really am sorry you got hurt,