Does it sound like he wants to try again?

[plou3407]

I met this guy online and we dated for 4 months and we broke up about 3 months ago. We’re both in early 20’s. We had a great time going on dates and enjoying each other's company, but the whole time he seemed unsure about me. He continued to ask me on dates but he didn't push for sex; yet he said I was the only one he's seeing at the time. He's a med school student so I believe he doesn't have time to date more than 1 girl. We only kissed and fooled around a bit but never made it past 3rd base. I’m a virgin and he’s not, and I made it clear that I’d like to have sex but only in a committed relationship and he was fine with that.

 

We broke up 3 months ago and I was the one who initiated it. I asked if he wanted to be official and gave an ultimatum. He told me he wasn’t ready and that he still hadn’t felt a strong connection with me to take things further. After the break up, we continued to stay in touch, with me doing most of the initiating. We agreed to be friends and actually met up a few times since. The last time we hung out was 2 weeks ago and I asked him if he wanted to go out again, but this time just keeping things super casual. He’s free to see other women. I’m currently finishing my last year of PhD so I’m fine with dating him knowing it might not lead to anywhere. His reply: “I’m fine with hanging out again in the future. I’m not sure where we’ll go from here but only time will tell. How about we talk again in a couple of weeks and decide then?” It's now 2 weeks later and I'm not sure if I should reach out. Does it sound like he wanted to try again or did he just let me down gently?

[Cinnamonstix]

This story sounds awfully familiar.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/576967-trying-move-guy-who-never-into-me

 

Sorry if I've got it wrong, but similar user name, similar story.

[hippychick3]

It sounds like you need to let this guy go and move on. Men don't go from lukewarm to hot. If he was willing to let you go and isn't into you enough to pursue you, it's never gonna happen.

 

Find someone who is crazy about you and you don't need to chase after.

[Larryville]

This story sounds awfully familiar.

 

Thought the same thing Cinnamon.... seeing more and more similar stories different names I guest people posting basically same stuff trying to get different answer results...

[smackie9]

You KNOW you are just wasting your time with this guy. Darlin you need to move on and find yourself a guy that wants the same as you. There is nothing you can do to change this guy to want a relationship with you. It's over, get on with life and find a new man.