any help please, she wants to leave the country 'cause of me. buy why.....HELP

[WhomiHide]

you won't believe this...

 

She told me that she wants to go to couple therapy....yet is still with her new fling....ARGH what does she really want?

 

She says she wants to leave the country to get away from me? why if she doesn't love me, i dont call her, text her, or even beg fo rher bacl...so why leave?

 

 

I need help with this, why leave if she is already in a relationship with someone whom she says she is happy with?

[aares]

Wait...she wants you to go to therapy with her, but she also wants to leave the country to get away from you? Something doesnt make sense here. Is it when she is angry that she says she wants to leave the country, or does she say that at any given time?

[WhomiHide]

She wasn't exactly upset....she was actually pretty calm, although i must admit she also look confused. I asked her if she was happy and she said yes, but couldn' t look me in the eyes....

 

She said she wants to go to couple therapy....but she is with someone, they dated for a month and now are exclusive...

 

We broke up 2 months ago...its has beem 4.5 years...

now she says therapy because she says we dont know how to communicate and wants to see where we went wrong....

 

She wants to leave the country to teach egnlish in China, but she admit to me she wants to get away from me....get away in a sense where she can think about her actions. I asked why she delved into a relationship so soon after us and why not try to fix it before she went out with a new person....she says, "yeah i know...i don't know why"....

 

now how is that for confusing....

[aares]

Um...I have absolutely no idea what her problem is...just flat out ask her what she wants. If I were you, I would just forget about her completely. She obviously likes the dude she is with because she hooked up with him soon after you two broke up. Go your seperate ways and let her have fun in China eating white rice.