steenerz Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 in regards to my post yesterday... he didn't call me at all yesterday. That is a first. No matter how bad we have fought before, he has always always called me. I'm so scared.
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 Give him time. He is overwhelmed by you and your neediness. Let him call you when he is ready. It is unfortunate you have so much going on, but your boyfriend is not responsible for your happiness. You are. The fact that you have made him your only source of happiness and security is what has driven him off. You are making yourself an obligation, and the more you push - the further he will disconnect from you. You will need to take some action now if you want to keep this relationship. Have you considered setting up an appointment in your area with a counselor through your family doctor? From your other posts it sounds like you have a lot you need to talk about - not just your boyfriend situation. It could well be that you are able to find ways to find some happiness and security within yourself, and this newfound strength will be something you can bring to a relationship, rather than be an emotional drain on a relationship. You will be less likely to 'need' your boyfriend, and you will be able to 'want' to be with him by choice.
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