Kimura89 Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 I was recently overseas on a short trip, met up with this girl I had been chatting to on Tinder beforehand and were clicking quite well. We were basically talking every day leading up to us meeting up. Anyway we met for the first time in person, went out for dinner, chatted for a while and ended up back at my hotel room and had sex. She stayed for a while after and we were kissing/cuddling, getting quite affectionate with each other etc. Since that night, even though she still texts me (though not as frequently) she seems quite distant and any responses she gives aren't as enthusiatic as before. Admittedly the night we met up I was quite sick/headache and didn't give it my best when it came time for the bedroom. But still, I don't understand why she would go cold like that?
Marker Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 Sounds like you're not overseas anymore and she knows that, and what you had was just a short fling. Nothing wrong with that. Hit her up if you're ever back in her area. In my experience, you meet a great girl in another city, have a romantic night, promise each other you'll stay in touch and see each other again... then you realize that you might not ever see them again and things dissipate. What can you do? There are other women out there.
basil67 Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 I reckon it is because she's overseas. It was fun to meet up with you, but she's not interested in forming anything close with someone who she's not with in real time.
ad4m Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 Just move on having the memory of the fling. She perhaps doesn't want anything more, so have the memory of your night together and move on.
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