Cotton Rain Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 Text messages. He earlier made sure to give me his new number. Yesterday: Me: Did we decide if I owe you money? I'd be willing to buy you a drink or something. $60 is a lot to spend and I had the best spot in the bed. (used emoticon) Him: Ahahaha. No, you don't owe me anything. Thank though. Was I rejected? Surely he can tell that I'm trying to get in his pants and not really worried about the money he'd spent on a hotel room I shared with him. I'm basically coyly asking him out, which is why I said I'd buy him a drink. Men, can you tell that I'm asking you out and does this mean he's not interested? Thanks
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 Text messages. He earlier made sure to give me his new number. Yesterday: Me: Did we decide if I owe you money? I'd be willing to buy you a drink or something. $60 is a lot to spend and I had the best spot in the bed. (used emoticon) Him: Ahahaha. No, you don't owe me anything. Thank though. Was I rejected? Surely he can tell that I'm trying to get in his pants and not really worried about the money he'd spent on a hotel room I shared with him. I'm basically coyly asking him out, which is why I said I'd buy him a drink. Men, can you tell that I'm asking you out and does this mean he's not interested? Thanks I think you're not asking him out right? it comes off like you just want to bang him. If you wanted to ask him out properly you would have issued a bit more class and subtlety
Erik30 Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 I probably wouldn't be able to tell if you're interested. To me it would seem more like you're worried about paying me (him) back. Mostly because of the way you phrased it; "I'd be willing to by you a drink.." So I don't think he rejected you because you didn't really ask him out.
LoveRefreshed Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 Unless the best spot in bed means we hooked up and enjoyed it, I'd really think you'd want to buy me a drink. I'd think you're interested and not just after my... If it did mean that, then yeah, it's pretty blatant what you want.... ....and it's pretty blatant that he's uninterested in either case, because that is such a screaming invite to ask a girl out that he'd have to be a fool to miss it.
katiegrl Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 Me: Did we decide if I owe you money? I'd be willing to buy you a drink or something. $60 is a lot to spend and I had the best spot in the bed. (used emoticon) You had the best spot in the bed? Did you go to bed with him? Have sex with him? Confused.
basil67 Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 All I got from that message is that you're worried about owing money and you had a good shag. I also think that 'being willing to buy a drink or something' is a poor return favour for a $60 meal. Either offer a whole dinner or offer nothing. I'm assuming he didn't pay $60 for sex.....because that's how it reads 1
Teddius Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 You had the best spot in the bed? Did you go to bed with him? Have sex with him? Confused. Hypothetically speaking, if she did hook up with him, his response, therefore, suggests he assumed the op was complimenting his "abilities", as opposed to seriously asking him out on a date.
Author Cotton Rain Posted April 28, 2016 Author Posted April 28, 2016 The women think im very direct and the men aren't sure. Haha. I'm referring to a non-sexual but some kissing/cuddling memory we have together. This guy and I have become friends and earlier that day we were talking about that day we shared a bed in a hotel after a crazy fun night. He said he couldn't wait for the event to come again because he had such a great time. I wanted to steer the conversation towards the physical part in case he'd like a repeat because he started blushing. Like one point he turned red. I almost teased him. No shagging. 2 nerdy cute shy ppl. Friends now.
katiegrl Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 (edited) Me: Did we decide if I owe you money? I'd be willing to buy you a drink or something. $60 is a lot to spend and I had the best spot in the bed. (used emoticon) Him: Ahahaha. No, you don't owe me anything. Thank though. Was I rejected? Well let's put it this way. If he were interested, he would have been all over that! Instead he didn't even acknowledge your offer to buy drinks.. and he writes, "no, you don't owe me, thanks though." Ouch! Edited April 28, 2016 by katiegrl
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