kodaw Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 So my gf broke up with me one week ago. She said thath I didnt speed enough time on her and thath she need one month to decide how next and some time for her. She said thath she dosent want to promise anything but we are gonna see each other soon.. We were together for 4 years. The thing is thath she didnt break up with me on facebook and she didnt tell anybody about us exept her mother and sister. Since then I get a job and her sister like thath on facebook is thath a good sign? And I doing no contact rule…
d0nnivain Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 After 4 years, there has to be more to this break up then you don't spend enough time with her. Now that you have a job -- good for you btw -- you will have even less time for her. NC is about healing. It's not something you do to wait for the other person to get thru this month long separation she imposed. You have to know that she will probably date others during that time. In the unlikely event she wants to come back are you going to be OK with whatever (whoever) she did while you were apart. To fix a relationship you have to communicate. Since she doesn't want to talk you can't fix this. Also if you are truly NC, that means unfriending her & blocking her from all social media. You shouldn't know her relationship status on FB. More importantly FB is not the be all end all of anything. She probably just hasn't gotten around to changing it.
Satu Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 So my gf broke up with me one week ago. She said thath I didnt speed enough time on her and thath she need one month to decide how next and some time for her. She said thath she dosent want to promise anything but we are gonna see each other soon.. We were together for 4 years. The thing is thath she didnt break up with me on facebook and she didnt tell anybody about us exept her mother and sister. Since then I get a job and her sister like thath on facebook is thath a good sign? *And I doing no contact rule… There is no 'No Contact Rule,' but there is No Contact. Forget Facebook; it doesn't portray reality. If she's very unhappy with you No Contact is a good way of making sure that you don't annoy her even more... This is my quick take on No Contact: *No direct contact. *No sending or receiving of messages. *Block any means she might use to contact you. *No replies to anything that gets through your blocks. *No indirect contact through third parties. *De-friend or delete from all social media. *No monitoring of her on social media. *No 'little birds' feeding you news. *Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying. Take it or leave it All the best.
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