nab0610 Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 OK so I met this girl I like on Tinder, I'm talking to quite a few atm. However I like her the most. We exchanged 4-5 messages got her number. Build a lil rapport over the fact that shes a super nerd in disguise who likes tigers blah blah balh I texted her, she texts back, I text, she texts, I text and ask her out...she says busy going to do this and this seems legit... I text her next week and ask her how blah and blah was and she responds ok cool, she responds thanks for asking, I text her, she doesn't respond I text her, she responds 4 hours later, I respond right after, she responds, I respond, ignored for 12 hrs I text her this morning when she's normally been texting saying I have a super serious question, trying to gauge some interest from her in the same time frames she's been texting me... Was basically gonna make fun of her for only responding in the early mornings. Then she responds, but not until 9pm and just with a ? I'm just totally lost man....I can't get anything out of her other than low ball blue balls....I feel like we have a lot in common, but I can't get a chance to have some fun with her... Obvioulsy at this point I can wait and text her tomorrow coz yolo took her 12h.
planb1973 Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 You should have asked her on a date after the 3rd text. She is not interested in a pen pal.
Author nab0610 Posted April 28, 2016 Author Posted April 28, 2016 I asked her out once I texted a few times since then I never got more than 1-2 responses back form her since then....... So I can just ask her out off the cuff, with my super serious comment, but that to me would be lame but maybe not idk.....
GR4 Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 The one thing I started to do with girls was to firstly keep the chit chat to a minimum. One or two texts maximum before asking them out and then no texts between then and any date. Also, don't ask a girl out on a specific date. It gives her an opportunity to make herself unavailable for that day if she's unsure about you or she may be genuinely busy. Instead ask her when she's free next week and whatever day she responds with is the day you tell her you're going out with her for a few drinks.
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