Is that "I'll never find someone as good" feeling true?

[Dangelo]

I've recently broke up with a girl I was madly in love with. She has moved on and asked for space since 3 days ago and I really just want to move on from the jealousy, anger, sadness and lack of focus this has caused me. But I feel she was so beautiful and so me, and I feel as if I'll never find someone better, but I felt this way about my last ex and now I look at her and wonder what the hell was I thinking. So is this feeling usually true or is it just an illusion of our feelings?

[basil67]

Dangelo, I look back at all of my exes and wonder why. That's not to say that I dislike them - I just can't see any part of that attraction anymore.

[d0nnivain]

Your ego took a hit when the break up happened. At this point all you see is doom & gloom. The feeling is fleeting, a function of your present situation. As you feel better you will get emotionally stronger & you will find somebody better for you.

[Dangelo]

Dangelo, I look back at all of my exes and wonder why. That's not to say that I dislike them - I just can't see any part of that attraction anymore.

I also hate that feeling cause then I feel like she'll feel the same way and that's just hurts to realize at this point

[Emilia]

The thing is, we all change as people. It's not just about not having those feelings anymore, it's also about growing, maturing and hopefully realising who or what is good for us.

[sowhynot]

Yep, just a passing illusion.

 

A bit like Mickey Mouse running off the edge of a cliff - it takes a while for gravity and reality to take over