phidelt127 Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 I met a girl at work about a week ago that is the first girl I've met there in a long time that seemed really cool, and that I was really attracted to. I asked her if she wanted to go get a drink or two a few times and those times have gone well. We've had a lot to talk about, she laughs at my jokes, we poke fun at each other, and it seemed that I may have just found someone great. Somehow though it is hard to see through her actions and words. I'm just not sure if I should go on pursuing this, just try to be friends, ot if I'm wasting my time completely here. The fear of rejection gets less and less with each instance and I would also say that one get's more cautious and skeptical as well. In that case, I'd say that I'm very cautious and have very little fear of rejection. Basically, I just want to know if there's some actions and/or body language that I'm missing telling me something one way or the other. I will say though that I have seen how some women act around my friend that like him, and it's not the same behavior that the girl I met shows. It has also crossed my mind that she may like me, but just may not want to poop where she eats. Please give me some advice even if it's to shut up and stop crying.
jellybean Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 <-----------shortbus ...or maybe I've just been living under a rock, but could someone please explain to me what this means? Originally posted by phidelt127 she may like me, but just may not want to poop where she eats.
erika2610 Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by jellybean <-----------shortbus ...or maybe I've just been living under a rock, but could someone please explain to me what this means? I guess I've been living under the rock next to you
moimeme Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 It generally means don't mess up personal stuff with business stuff - which doesn't appear to be relevant to this situation unless they work together.
Nuala Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 if you have fun when your out with her, then its not a waste of time. Enjoy the time out. If not at work, where else will you meet people? Go for it!
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