mylittleone Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 I ghosted my fwb over the last month, stayed strong haven't called for a hook up and have been distant with him at work (not rude, just not friendly flirty) (based on the advice given here, because he has been honest that he doesn't want a relationship - stated to sink in that he doesn't want me, and I've been better about it recently. Today he asks me out this Sat night (didn't say date - just want me to come with him) part of me is thinking OK, maybe, just maybe he has missed me. 20 mins later I find out off a girlfriend, he was out the other night trying it on with another girl. Definitely not going out with him on Friday now. Timing for a change has worked in my favor.
Arieswoman Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 mylittelone, Why are you settling for FWB when you could have a lot better? Get your self esteem out of the gutter and look for a guy who want a proper relationship with you. Good luck x 2
Author mylittleone Posted April 27, 2016 Author Posted April 27, 2016 I have stopped, I just thought if he was taking me out then maybe he decided he wanted more. But clearly not. I will be staying strong this weekend, but man it's hard when you want someone so bad.
Arieswoman Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 mylittleone, If he doesn't want what you want then he is not the guy for you. No matter how much you think you want someone, if they are not on the same page as you it's a waste of time. I don't know if you have ever played poker, but if you have then you learn when you should fold. There are better guys out there for you, go find 'em !
Author mylittleone Posted April 27, 2016 Author Posted April 27, 2016 Your dead right, it just hurts so much. 1
Arieswoman Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 mylittleone, I know, been there got the T-shirt. Stay strong.
Author mylittleone Posted April 27, 2016 Author Posted April 27, 2016 I will. I guess I need to tell him out right I don't want to hook up anymore.
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