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My "feelings" for someone has returned all of a sudden..?


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So back in 2005 I met this guy. I was 14 and he was 17. We never really 'dated', but we were very close and we always kind of had feelings for each other. In fact, I think the guy loved and cared about me a lot. We stayed as close friends up until around... 2009, and then we cut contact with each other because I did something that hurt his feelings over something petty, but we were also both pretty immature and didn't know how to deal with our problems.

 

Now fast forward to 2016; I'm 24 years old now. I haven't talked to this guy for almost 7 years and it never really bothered me. I hardly EVER thought about him and what happened between us, but now all of a sudden I can't stop thinking about him and it feels like my feelings for him have just returned out of the blue. It's really driving me insane. I don't know why this is happening to me. I want to reach out to him but I'm also not sure if I should because I really don't know anything about him or what's going on in his life anymore. I was hoping someone else might have an idea as to why something like this is happening all of a sudden. I'm so confused.

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Hi there,

 

Are you sure nothing is going on in your life? Nothing that could have triggered these feelings?

 

It's quite odd that suddenly you are feeling this way.

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Well I did play some video games recently that the two of us used to play a lot together, but it never really triggered my feelings like this before.

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