Gommario007 Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 The story behind us: we are together for almost 8 moths, we see each other almost everyday we both attend school and work after that. We meet at her place which is 35 km distant from my home. Time by time she gets from me flowers, choco etc. Lately because my GF has final exams it got weird between us, she is not an A+ student at school but I study economic university so I help her with finals. It has started 3 weeks ago when I texted her that I am sick and I have fewer and headake so we probably won't see each other because I can't drive my car, but she can come over to my place. She started to be very angry and sarcastic and mean over the text and went offline for a few hours. Then when we saw each other she made major scene that I told her late because she was already on her way home so she could make plans. Other big scene was because I started snooring because I am alergic and right know every plant grows up. She started to wake me up in night when we were sleeping together and going out and telling me she can't sleep with me etc.. After that I spent over 50$ on medications and STOP snooring things. Another thing was that I couldnt ejaculate when we had sex and she just started to be pissed off because she thought that I masturbate at home and watch porn os I can't ejaculate. I assured her million times that this is not the thing (and it is true!) but rather because of every member of her family is home and her bed is very squeky. Lately she is quite saucy and mean at me for no reason, like sometimes I teach her something and I want her to repeated or trying to explain to her in detail so she understands it correctly for finals. And other minor things which led to minor scenes or arguments. Right now, I honestly don't know what to do, she often tells me how she loves me, posts couple photos on FB and ista and tells me how she cant be with me. I am feeling bad right now, I dont wanna stress her before finals but I don't know if those scenes are only because of finals or???
Papiyon Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 It sounds like you both are experiencing stress. I’m sure with you also being a student you can relate to how your girlfriend could be feeling. In the midst of it all, life is happening- finals, allergies, tiredness, and of course…being in a relationship. We each handle stress differently. Maybe this is all due to stress. I’m wondering if communicating with her will help. Maybe she just needs to hear “are you okay, you seem stressed lately, can I help?”. I know this maybe a long shot but, it could be worth the try. Maybe pay attention to see if her behavior towards you continues after finals. If it doesn't then it could be something bigger (I’m not suggesting cheating- could be something else going on). Here’s a link to some stress relieving reminders I use when I’m on the edge…BTW I can relate, I’m also a student I hope this helps. Stress | Focus on the Family
lovelife32 Posted April 30, 2016 Posted April 30, 2016 I think you should let her know that you really try your best to be there for her, that you understand she's stressed because of the finals but maybe you deserve to be treated better. If anything won't change then you can wait to see how things work after her final exams.
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