BaymaxBear Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 My ex girlfriend and I were together four years. She strung me along for awhile then finally dumped me after finding someone else.. She said she wasn't attracted to me anymore and was sorry but she had felt that way for awhile. Anyway I went complete no contact for 5 months. We recently ran into eachother at a party and she kept staring at me but I ignored her. I later get a text from her and We fooled around that night. Then we don't see eachother for two weeks. Next thing I know she texts me again and we have rough sex for 40 minutes. She started crying saying what are we doing? I told her just having fun I don't want a relationship with her. She said it isn't fun because it means so much with me. I took her virginity and she "says" she hasn't had sex since, just fooled around. She likes another guy so why did she do this with me when just 5 months ago she she wasn't attracted to me? I think she was just curious about me because I fell off the map, just a mystery. She said I've grown so much and we still have this connection, but I'm not buying it. She asked if I ever saw us getting back together and I said no haha. Should I still ignore her or what? This girl seems confused.
bathtub-row Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 I have a friend who refers to this type of thing as "goodbye sex". Lol. I'm glad you told her what you did about not wanting a relationship with her. She sounds kind of messed up if you ask me.
Author BaymaxBear Posted April 27, 2016 Author Posted April 27, 2016 Haha yea i kinda see it as that in a way. She told me when we were done we wouldn't have sex again and I thought that was true. She just got into med school as did I and she asked if I'd help break in her new apartment lol... I'm prolly gonna turn her down because she has so much attention from other guys because she's hot... She prolly just wants her cake and to eat it too
bathtub-row Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 SHE probably doesn't even know what she's thinking. A sexual connection is often a tough thing to break but, yeah, I get the impression she's toying with you. This is all about ego for her. She wants to think that you're sitting around pining over her. Even if you are, lie to her. Feeding her ego is the worst thing you can do with a person like this.
Author BaymaxBear Posted April 27, 2016 Author Posted April 27, 2016 Oh, I did pine after her at first... But after I collected myself and looked around I saw I'm a handsome fit guy that is going to be a surgeon haha. There are so many girls out there to pursue so why care about one that isn't sure about you? I haven't talked to her since the day after we had sex, I left town and she said she wasn't ready for me to leave. I didn't reply lol. She can have the other dudes for all I care. Nobody deserves to be a backup to anyone, we are all unique and have genius within us!
Author BaymaxBear Posted April 29, 2016 Author Posted April 29, 2016 Do you think talking to an ex will fuel her into a new relationship? We met up for the first time in 5 months after a 4 year relationship and she said she still loved me.. I don't believe anything she says by the way haha. But she told me she is pursuing a relationship with a man after she just told me she wants to be single. We had sex and I told her I didn't want a relationship with her right now. Any advice as to if I helped propel her into this new relationship?
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