Lablue Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 Frustrated. I'm 32 living in the Big Apple. I did have only one serious relationship for 3 years. Before that I didn't have boyfriends. Well I did twice but they only latest a month. I do go out alot. Social events, parties and have even traveled. Recently, I had met a 43 y.o who showed great interest in me. Even though he had kids I was open to giving him a chance. We went out a couple of times. Honestly I felt like he only wanted me for sex. He disappeared. And he prefers the company of a 20 year old. Once again the guy disappeared. By chance I had met someone else randomly. It was great we connected. Again nothing. I seem to attract briefly and nothing happens. Even when I traveled I met someone but they became flaky. Even though its sweet how people say, "...you're beautiful, fun, wonderful...and to not worry something better is coming". Ok when will that better come? I plan on doing some meet ups and travel. At this point I feel like I wont ever meet someone.
d0nnivain Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 Dating in NYC is rough. There will always be somebody younger, thinner & wealthier. Men collect women like trophies & discard them like baseball trading cards. So part of your problem is the pond in which you are fishing. My advice: go on craigslist. Find an ad for somebody who is running a Jersey shore summer share house in your age group. Buy a 1/2 share & fish in a different pond for a while. Do not go south of Pt. Pleasant unless you have a car; Pt. Pleasant / Bay Head are the last stops. Do not take a summer share in the Hamptons. You will have the same problems you face now. 1
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