doesntmatter74 Posted April 26, 2016 Posted April 26, 2016 I'm 17, she is 17, and she is gorgeous and I dont deserve her. we've known eachother for a long time but in the past few months we both have developed feelings for eachother, and a lot has happened you could say. She took the initiative with this and I had no idea she liked me. She would cuddle into me at her house and always touch me, but she is hard to read as you'll see when I continue. So it started off with a kiss, we were at a party, both a little merry from drink and she kissed me and one thing led to another and by the end of the night we were very happy, I just found out she had liked me all along and was shocked and delighted. The next day things on a physical basis escalated very quickly, which was a good sign for me. We got on great and always spent time with eachother. I got her a heart shaped bracelet for her that says 'you and me' on it, which I now think was too much too soon for the little time we were 'together' (not an official relationship) but after a few weeks at back of my mind I was doubtful of her interest in me. One day I met her while she was with her friends and she barely talked to me that day, which is kind of okay, she was with her friends. But I thought something was wrong, so I said it to her, and I was right, she was annoyed with me for a few things I had done wrong, not texting her enough and little things like that and we were arguing a lot about it, she said I hurt her. I went to a disco with her one night and any time I put my arm around her waist she would take my hands off her. I was very hurt, she was pushing me away. After me constantly asking her if she wanted it to be over, she said the same thing over and over again 'I dont know if I want a relationship, I just need time'. So i thought its over, thats just a light way of saying shes no longer interested and is trying to gently push me away. So I decided to back off a little and not text her, but she would text me when I stopped which confused me, just a simple 'hey' from her nearly everyday. She either actually needed time or tried to push me away lightly, and it really felt like she wanted to get rid of me, but why would she text me at all if she wanted to get rid of me? After a month or so I found out she had got with another guy at a disco, which really hurt me although we were technically not in a relationship, but there was nothing between them and I believe she cried after having done this. I really thought it was over but I was still crying about her all the time, we hadn't met in nearly a month, then I met with her a few days ago and she was very happy around me like she used to be, touching me a lot and pulling at me. Myself, her, and her friend were at home lying on a bed and she was poking me, grabbing my nose and all that cute stuff she used to do, and sort of trying to cuddle me, it was very confusing. Then yesterday I encountered her, we were at a show and there were many other people there who she was with and she didn't really talk to me, when we did she was very short, and it really felt like to me that she wasnt interested in me. I cant tell if somethings up or I am just constantly paranoid. She was still wearing that heart shaped bracelet I got her. Please share your opinions or similar experiences, its really getting to me.
d0nnivain Posted April 26, 2016 Posted April 26, 2016 She liked you at some point but you didn't stroke her ego enough. She is also a 17 year old girl. They are very flighty & change their minds often. She already tried dating you; she no longer wants to date you. She wants to be carefree to date many people or at least guys who aren't you. You can be her friend if you are OK with those crumbs & want a front row seat to the next few guys in her life. I'd leave her alone & find a new girl who wants what you want: a relationship at your pace.
Author doesntmatter74 Posted April 26, 2016 Author Posted April 26, 2016 She liked you at some point but you didn't stroke her ego enough. She is also a 17 year old girl. They are very flighty & change their minds often. She already tried dating you; she no longer wants to date you. She wants to be carefree to date many people or at least guys who aren't you. You can be her friend if you are OK with those crumbs & want a front row seat to the next few guys in her life. I'd leave her alone & find a new girl who wants what you want: a relationship at your pace. But why does she cry about me and touch me and stuff if she doesnt want me?
d0nnivain Posted April 26, 2016 Posted April 26, 2016 But why does she cry about me and touch me and stuff if she doesnt want me? Because she is a 17 year old girl who likes attention.
Author doesntmatter74 Posted April 26, 2016 Author Posted April 26, 2016 Because she is a 17 year old girl who likes attention. I dont think I'll take your word for it, why would she wear that heart shaped bracelet saying 'you and me' that I got for her 2 months ago if she still didnt have feelings for me
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