What do you think of what I did to this girl

[reallymeanpersoncame]

I worked with a women. She seemed cute but she left me. The way she left me kept me wondering. I found her on POF so I had her cat fished. She knew I was behind it and asked me to stop. I knew she liked me. I thought I liked her. I later had her emails and everything hacked. I found out she was troubled so I kept my eye out for her. She was very gulable. I got sick of her pretty quick because of her age.

I also couldn't fix her and change her but she was attached to my help. So I started to post mean things to her to try to get her to get rid of me to avoid hating her. I didn't realize she was suffering mentally and took my insults personally.

I met some one knew and was unable to help her anymore. My heart wasn't in it so I started to post support for her to read and started to tell her to leave me alone.

She said she never really cared about me as much as I thought she did but was disgusted that I hacked her and found out so much about her family. I even sent someone to her gym. She might be reading this, can you give her advice.

[gimlynick]

I think that the only one who needs professional help is you.

[keiji]

So you tell mean things to a woman to get rid of her? As someone else said, I think you need help. The woman will be fine, believe me.

Edited April 26, 2016 by keiji

[reallymeanpersoncame]

she's garbage. If I told her myself then she may have been led on by me. she didn't deserve anything from me. atleast now she can remove me from her heart and mind and never have to worry about a kept soul. please, she wasn't even on my level. she is crazy.

[keiji]

she's garbage. If I told her myself then she may have been led on by me. she didn't deserve anything from me. atleast now she can remove me from her heart and mind and never have to worry about a kept soul. please, she wasn't even on my level. she is crazy.

 

I usually try not to be harsh, because we're all in a dark place when we come here and you must be sympathetic, but man, you said mean things to her to make her hate you, you met someone new and withdrew your help, you sent someone to her gym, you say she might be reading this and ask us to help her, you say she's garbage... Does any of this sound rational to you? Certainly not to me, although I admit it's been a bit difficult to follow your train of thought in your original post. Maybe it's my obviously non-native English, but in this case I doubt it.

[reallymeanpersoncame]

Yea, the girl is a bipolar!!! I am 42 years old. an engineer. a hot guy. I can have any women. I didn't want her. I tried to help her get over me. She doesn't function. She said bad names when I was listening to her conversations. I was using her words and thoughts to help her get over me without telling her anything. I am pfh way to good for her.

[keiji]

Yea, the girl is a bipolar!!! I am 42 years old. an engineer. a hot guy. I can have any women. I didn't want her. I tried to help her get over me. She doesn't function. She said bad names when I was listening to her conversations. I was using her words and thoughts to help her get over me without telling her anything. I am pfh way to good for her.

 

Great. What do you need exactly, then?

[reallymeanpersoncame]

Honestly, so she reads this and gets over me. I do not want anything to do with her but feel like she will not be able to let go of me. She once told me she didn't believe she could ever have a man like me. I also moved on and am actually doing the right thing. I have a new girlfriend and there is no reason for me to talk to another one. I am being harsh so she learns.

[keiji]

Honestly, so she reads this and gets over me. I do not want anything to do with her but feel like she will not be able to let go of me. She once told me she didn't believe she could ever have a man like me. I also moved on and am actually doing the right thing. I have a new girlfriend and there is no reason for me to talk to another one. I am being harsh so she learns.

 

Then maybe you should tell her to join this forum and ask for these guy's insights, which will surely help her way more than reading how you're awesome while she is crap.

 

Ask your ego to message her if your schedule is too tight.

[d0nnivain]

It's not your place to teach her.

 

When she ignored you, you need to simply ignore her back & get on with your life. For you to go out of your way to "punish" her by catfishing her & hacking her accounts leaves me wondering about your mental stability. There was no need for you to do any of this. Your actions were cruel & may have been illegal.

 

As a 42 year old engineer I would think you would have better things to do with your time the torture her. To the extent you are looking for things to do, I suggest brushing up on your grammar & reacquainting yourself with The Golden Rule.

 

You seem to be lacking in basic empathy and human compassion to do these mean things to somebody you now know is gullible and suffering from medical conditions.