lostnlove007 Posted April 26, 2016 Posted April 26, 2016 It's now been almost 2 months since my BU with my GF. Its been extremely difficult during that time. We had some NC and have seen each other twice since the BU. Also she has been dropping breadcrumbs for the past week and I gobbled them up but when I call and I speak with her, I'm left speechless with how angry and mean she remains. Remembering that has helped me realize that I have to go NC for my own sanity. I was in the wrong for the BU and hurt her dearly but she waived the towel at our first major fight. So I've seen a video that has a line it that says, "When people are willing to walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is not tied to the person who leaves." This line has really helped me realize that no matter how much I wanted her back or loved her, it wasn't important enough to her and try and make it work. I hope this may help someone else when the feel urge to break NC.
Orion39 Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 That is a great quote and a positive statement to live by. The hard part is letting them go. Similar to the old tale "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back it's yours if it doesn't it never was." Not that I think any one person belongs to another, but I hope you get the thought here. I wish I would have know the quote you put in your post years ago, it would have saved me the heartache of trying to hold on to way too many relationships. Anyway, thanks for sharing this it was very insightful
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