Dating and Social Media

April 27, 2016

Everyone handles things differently. Just like moving on and no longer caring doesn't go hand in hand. I can move on with my life, with zero expectations of seeing him, speaking to him or having a relationship with him, but turning off feelings is not that easy. I'm also the type of person that likes to talk about my thoughts or feelings. When I choose to get on a public forum to talk about a situation I was involved with, or maybe ask advice as to why he felt the need to still reach out via social media, that's exactly what I'm doing.

Of course I still think about him. But am I sitting around waiting for him to reach out? No, I'm not at all.

sweetjess,

Your post is about dating and social media. People on here are telling you to block him for your own good, because seeing his posts, etc. is going to make it take longer for you to get him out of your system. This will help you to truly move one - without feelings - much faster. The fact that you still have feelings for him makes it more important for you to stop all forms of contact.

Personally, I would not exchange SM info with a guy I'm not in a relationship with. As soon as it was over, I would have no problem removing them either, regardless of whose choice it was. I don't care what they think. I care about my own emotional state.

April 27, 2016

sweetjess,

Your post is about dating and social media. People on here are telling you to block him for your own good, because seeing his posts, etc. is going to make it take longer for you to get him out of your system. This will help you to truly move one - without feelings - much faster. The fact that you still have feelings for him makes it more important for you to stop all forms of contact.

Personally, I would not exchange SM info with a guy I'm not in a relationship with. As soon as it was over, I would have no problem removing them either, regardless of whose choice it was. I don't care what they think. I care about my own emotional state.

I agree with this part bolded in this social media dilemma. I wouldn't add or follow someone who I just started dating from a purely dating pov, such as met online or from first meeting they asked me out. That's too much and you can avoid these problems and other problems that in itself creates. However, what is a very typical situation, is that you start out as flirty friends-ish who add one another, a friends relationship grows into more often due to social media or you know each through your group of friends, then I think blocking is unnecessary and stupid. I'm also not primarily worried about what they think. I can handle my own emotions.

April 27, 2016

I agree with this part bolded in this social media dilemma. I wouldn't add or follow someone who I just started dating from a purely dating pov, such as met online or from first meeting they asked me out. That's too much and you can avoid these problems and other problems that in itself creates. However, what is a very typical situation, is that you start out as flirty friends-ish who add one another, a friends relationship grows into more often due to social media or you know each through your group of friends, then I think blocking is unnecessary and stupid. I'm also not primarily worried about what they think. I can handle my own emotions.

I agree that blocking can be silly when it's just a "go to" move, especially when it comes out of resentment and anger. I do not advocate this move for all situations. But for someone you hardly know that keeps making his presence known to keep you on the hook and that you still have feelings for, this is an okay thing to do. Out of sight, out of mind. Plus, you remove his power to leave you breadcrumbs.

April 27, 2016

I agree that blocking can be silly when it's just a "go to" move, especially when it comes out of resentment and anger. I do not advocate this move for all situations. But for someone you hardly know that keeps making his presence known to keep you on the hook and that you still have feelings for, this is an okay thing to do. Out of sight, out of mind. Plus, you remove his power to leave you breadcrumbs.

Agreed. However, when you don't pick up his breadcrumbs they have no effect. In fact, seeing that he throws them out can even make some people who it's in their nature-probably such as OP & me, just see him in his little silly light and that gives strength and have the opposite effect of what he is trying to do. For some people these pathetic attempts after the fact make you see the other person for who they are and more clearly.

April 27, 2016

Since then, he still sends me snapchats. When I ignore them, I get more. I post to "My Story" (never directly send to him) and he chats me, ESPECIALLY if he sees another guy in my video. He likes my Instagram photos. He likes my Facebook photos. Just when a week has gone by with nothing from him, he comes back with my snapchats and photos likes.

I don't understand what he's doing. My friend at work says that he is being "friends". I don't think that is the case. I send my friends snapchats all the time. Him and I aren't friends. Its almost like he wants to remind me "Hey, I'm still here. Don't forget about me". And the more I ignore, the more he reaches out through social media.

Its upsetting because we had such a connection that we both saw. I fully understand not being ready to date after being in a long term relationship, but don't lead someone on.

I should just keep ignoring, right?!

If the snapchats are upsetting, then block. If they're not, keep him around if you want. It's all about how you feel about the situation.

But I think it's worth asking yourself if you are keeping him around as an ego boost or so you can passively show him how great you are with your own snapchats.

If I were in your situation, with a woman I dated for only a month, I would find it annoying and would block. It's unnecessary clutter in your brain to me and it probably means you are taking away focus from other matters in your life.

April 27, 2016

Agreed. However, when you don't pick up his breadcrumbs they have no effect. In fact, seeing that he throws them out can even make some people who it's in their nature-probably such as OP & me, just see him in his little silly light and that gives strength and have the opposite effect of what he is trying to do. For some people these pathetic attempts after the fact make you see the other person for who they are and more clearly.

That has been very true for me too actually. When a guy keeps reaching out, it makes me look at them as a bit pathetic and/or manipulative. When I was younger I found it easier to look at an ex and find reasons to not like them to justify the end of the relationship. As I've matured though, I try not to rely on having a negative perception of the other person in order to move on.

April 27, 2016

That has been very true for me too actually. When a guy keeps reaching out, it makes me look at them as a bit pathetic and/or manipulative. When I was younger I found it easier to look at an ex and find reasons to not like them to justify the end of the relationship. As I've matured though, I try not to rely on having a negative perception of the other person in order to move on.

Pretty zen of you and not wrong by any means. But if the relationship is over it's not wrong either to see the person for who they are, even if it is negative. Lots of people can get caught up in seeing only or primarily the good side when they are in it. It's not that you "need" to see the negative; it just is what it is. I tend not to see things not too black or white so don't necessarily always see continued attempts at contact as all one way or another but shades of grey, which is probably why I don't find it necessary to block people. It just is what it is. Hiding myself from someone or vice versa won't really change that. But I appreciate your perspective and can see why that works for some people too.

April 27, 2016

Pretty zen of you and not wrong by any means. But if the relationship is over it's not wrong either to see the person for who they are, even if it is negative. Lots of people can get caught up in seeing only or primarily the good side when they are in it. It's not that you "need" to see the negative; it just is what it is. I tend not to see things not too black or white so don't necessarily always see continued attempts at contact as all one way or another but shades of grey, which is probably why I don't find it necessary to block people. It just is what it is. Hiding myself from someone or vice versa won't really change that. But I appreciate your perspective and can see why that works for some people too.

Lol at the zen comment. It's just that the older I get, the better my partner choices seem to be and I really have nothing to think other than we weren't right together. So now I tend to think "great person, but not for me."

April 28, 2016

I recently "dated" a girl that was kind of the same way. Learn to walk away from people like this.

Biggest red flag is when someone says "I don't want you to miss out on someone else." Soon as you hear that, walk.

It all sounds like a big mind game-he's stringing you along until he's ready (and when I say ready I mean-no one else is in the picture because his options dried up). Sorry to be so blunt about it, I've dealt with the same thing. Not a pretty situation.

April 28, 2016

I recently "dated" a girl that was kind of the same way. Learn to walk away from people like this.

Biggest red flag is when someone says "I don't want you to miss out on someone else." Soon as you hear that, walk.

It all sounds like a big mind game-he's stringing you along until he's ready (and when I say ready I mean-no one else is in the picture because his options dried up). Sorry to be so blunt about it, I've dealt with the same thing. Not a pretty situation.

I did walk away. The conversation we had at the basketball game spelled everything out - that he likes me, but isn't ready to get back into a relationship since a serious, 3 year one ended back in November. I said it is what it is, and it was just poor timing. I didn't reach out again, through social media or text. HE was the one who continued to like my photos (on both Instagram and Facebook) and send me snapchat after snapchat, all to which I didn't respond or acknowledge.

I won't be strung along and I absolutely will not fall for those games.

April 28, 2016

Lol at the zen comment. It's just that the older I get, the better my partner choices seem to be and I really have nothing to think other than we weren't right together. So now I tend to think "great person, but not for me."

I don't necessarily think that me not blocking him on any social media means that my partner choice is not good. As I get older as well, I know what works and what doesn't. I used to stay in a relationship with someone I KNEW wasn't good for me. I'm happy being single now and I've dated a lot of guys within the last few years that were good guys, and I very well could have a relationship with them, but I knew it wasn't going to work. Same with this guy - I'm not going to wait and hope that he comes around and is ready. I'm also not going to be one of the many girls that he could possibly be stringing along or reaching out to via social media.

April 30, 2016

The thing is, I was very laid back and "chill" with this situation. I wasn't the one putting in the effort, he was. I mean, he did ask to take me to dinner the very next night after we met for the first time for drinks. I was even a little turned off by the quickness. When he mentioned going on a cruise, I felt smothered. I'm not the type of girl that moves extremely quickly.

I didn't have the "what do you want" talk because we were only a few weeks to a month into it. In my opinion, that talk is too early. We were just hanging out, enjoying each other's company and seeing where things went.

But when HE brought up the dating sites and whether or not I was still on it, HE was the one who said that he wasn't seeing anyone else. I never brought that up. I even assumed that he was probably still hanging out with other girls. I means, its not like I can't log on to Tinder and see his location change. I'm not stupid.

My biggest annoyance and problem with him, and just with dating in general, is how dishonest people are. When we talked about it, I told him I was a big girl and he should have told me upfront what he wanted. I even asked him on the 2nd date if getting out of a serious, long-term relationship not that long ago was an issue and he said no. And his response was that he wasn't using me for sex and did really like me, but realized he couldn't be in a relationship now.

I don't understand. If it is laid back and chill, then why do you feel hurt that he's on dating sites?

For me, there is no such thing as too early for what are you looking for? I don't understand how that is something that should come up months later. We're not talking about asking to move in, be married or even be in a relationship, it's pretty standard IMO, in any situation in life, to ask what the person's hoping for. You said it was too early to ask, but you're also saying he should have said up front what he wanted....I don't get that. You think it's too early while at the same time the person should be upfront?

You also have to understand that it's also up to you to use your own judgment. Asking a man if getting out of a serious relationship was a problem, why would he say yes? He may genuinely think it's not a problem, so it's up to you to determine your own standard beforehand and decide what will work for you or what could be a potential issue.

It seems based on what you're saying that you've fallen into the "oh we're just chilling, I don't care" trap when you actually genuinely do care, do want him to be upfront and do have expectations that he didn't meet or else you'd not feel annoyed or disappointed. Having expectations is normal and not wrong. It's better for ALL (you too, not just him) to be upfront and not act like you're all chill when you may want more.

April 30, 2016

No, dont keep ignoring...block him. If he really wanted you back he would call you or text you to set up a date to apologize, express to you that he wants you in his life and that he made a mistake. He's just not ready for a relationship but still wants you as an option, maybe to get laid.

May 16, 2016

My apologies to anyone who thinks this post is redundant or unnecessary, but I'm feeling down today and need to post.

Since I last posted, I still did not block him, but any snapchats I received, I just looked it and didn't respond. Sometimes I would go days without getting any, then I would get multiple ones a day. Things like a picture of him and his niece or him and his mom. He would still like my Instagram or Facebook posts, but I wouldn't do the same.

Then, last week, he sent me a picture of a new rolex. I responded "great job!!" because I knew that meant he hit his sales goal. He had told me when we were still hanging out that if he hit a million in sales he would get this really nice Rolex. SO, that was the only time I responded, and I did because I'm a nice person. He responded "Thanks" and then proceeded to tell me that he was moving to my hometown next week. We chatted a little bit about his move and he told me that he was going to open an office for work and hoped the city was a cool place. I explained that I enjoyed it, but it was a "settle down and have kids" city. Nothing like where we live now. I ended it with "Good luck with everything". He said "You as well".

And I continued to live my life. I think I got a few snapchats after that, and he liked maybe one or 2 of my photos, but him moving was closure in a way. And it made me feel better. I knew he wouldn't be in the same city as me anymore, in fact, 3 hours away. The only thing that sucked was knowing he was living in the same city as my family, and I go home often.

Fast forward to this Saturday - my friends and I went to a Springfest event at a local brewery. I posted a few snapchats while I was there and I know he watched them. So I know he knew I was there. A couple hours later, I was standing at the front of the brewery waiting to use the bathroom and saw him walk in. GREAT. And of course, when I met back up with my friends, him and his friends were standing right behind mine. I didn't acknowledge him. Just continued to have a good time. I know he saw me and he kept looking over. When we all decided to go to another bar, he stopped me as I was walking out. Of course he was super flirty and we talked a little bit. I told him we were going to another bar and (alcohol got the best of me) invited him and his friend. He told me they had to stop by his place for a minute then would come meet us, and for me to text him.

I got to the next bar with my friends and texted him about coming. I "overtexted" (again - alcohol got the best of me) and when him and his friend finally showed up, they came upstairs where I was but sat at the bar. He seemed like he was being a grouch and didn't really want me going over there, so I just continued to dance around with my friends. During this time, a couple guys approached me on different occassions to try to talk. After a while, I went over to my guy to talk and he starts going off about how I'm "bouncing from guy to guy". I tried to not get upset, but he kept going on and I got pissed and went outside to call an uber home. He came out after me and tried to talk, and all my feelings came out. I told him he was an a$$ for acting like I'm bouncing from guy to guy. I can't help if a guy tries to talk to me and I'm single, so I can do what I want. And he had no right to be upset. It wasn't like I was making out with each guy. And I told him he had no business being on dating sites if he had no intention of dating someone. He said he deleted them. I told him that what he did to me was so messed up, that he lead everything and then just ripped it out from under me, and that it sucked that we had such a great connection and its just wasted. He said he didn't want to hurt me and year ago, he wouldn't care and would just let things get bad, but he couldn't do that to me. He basically said he is chasing the money but of course threw in the part that he might circle back to my city. Oh, and to let him know when I was in town and we could get together.

The worst part was that he told me he how great a girl I was. And that's not what I wanted to hear. I'm like, just tell me I'm not a good girl or you're not attracted to me. And this whole time, I was fighting back tears. My uber came and he kissed me on my head and said "get home safely". And I cried the whole ride home. Poor uber driver. The next morning, I felt horrible about the whole situation and texted him that last night sucked and I didn't want what I said to be the last thing I said to him, that I understood how he felt and I knew he would do great wherever he goes. And got NOTHING in response.

And I'm having the WORST moral hangover. I was fine not speaking to him. HE was the one that initiated the conversation. I was going to leave the brewery without saying a word to him. HE came to the brewery knowing I was there. HE came to the next bar. I hate drinking and being in a situation like that because I woke up the next day feeling STUPID and wondering if it was really as ridiculous as I remember it to be. Not to mention me crying in front of him. I HATE that. I'm such a strong person and I never want a man to know he has gotten to me like that. And then to not even acknowledge the text I sent the next morning. I hate feeling like I did something wrong and sent that text to make it right, when I didn't have to.

May 16, 2016

You should never get into this situation in the first place!

I really hate social media, and I want no part of it. But other people keep trying to drag me in - especially girls. This is becoming a major problem for dating in my opinion.

I text a girl yesterday (got her number Friday night) and in the very first reply she says to me "do you have whatssapp? It's better than texting", and I'm not kidding but I was willing to stop right there and not text no more. I completely lost motivation.

So I leave it until today and sent "I don't use any social media. I'll probably be in the [pub where we met] this weekend".

And she sent back 'doesn't matter! we can talk over text'.

That's my boundary, and I think she could tell as well. I'm not using social media, and I'm willing to walk away if it's an issue. You have to put your foot down early on and be unwavering. Because the thing with social media is that it's all linked together: I get whatssapp, then I need to renew my Facebook, then it'll be something else.

Next time say no from the very beginning. You are making your dating life much more complicated than it needs to be.

May 16, 2016

Well, don't think of it as bad as you do. I think you held your own. So you sent the last text, so what? Really think about it. Doesn't change things, ie that you did not give him any indication directly that you were open to dating him. If he cannot be the bigger person and wrap up your last text with one back that doesn't want to end on a bad night, so? You are still the bigger person. You did what you want to reach out like that and just have to be comfortable with that.

Let's be honest though you were probably wanting the discussion to continue that's why it bothers you that he did not reply. It sounds like you are both still hooked into each other. Kinda normal. But you will have to ask yourself what you really want. The underlying theme (of both of you) is that you still have unfinished business and are emotionally invested. It sounds like you both still have feelings for one another.

I think you just need to get clear on what you stance really is. If you want to date him, but have reached your limit, come up with what he would need to do in order to get back in. IF you hear from him, then let him know. Do not "wait". If you don't want to be with him let it go. Nothing really to be embarrassed about. I think you just want to have the last word and feel like you don't. I don't think that's true exactly and it doesn't really matter. I think guys don't reply sometimes when they don't know what to say and/or don't want to navigate drama--they will risk it and hope it blows over, especially if not in an actual relationship. You guys technically aren't, even if you both still have feelings for each other. And he pretty much knows that you've said you don't want to be with him and he is moving--so low motivation to "fix" this.

As this relates to social media, since that was the nature of your thread. I still don't think you need to delete or block him, but if you were to do it, now would be the time. If you don't do it, (because you don't feel it's necessary, like i believe), then at same time don't fool yourself if you are secretly holding out hope by leaving that avenue OPEN and keeping tabs on him and allowing him to do same with you. I think if you have your eye on your future and are really done with him, that's possible. Might not be how you are feeling right now though.

I agree with Jabron about adding people to your social media that you are dating. Ugh, no. If you start dating one of the people who ALREADY follows or is a friend of yours, that's different. But if they are not already on your social media, don't add them. Adds unnecessary complications and opens the door for misunderstandings and spying kinda stuff. Good luck

May 16, 2016

Next time say no from the very beginning. You are making your dating life much more complicated than it needs to be.

I think people make it complicated because of fear of screwing up... they are fearful to set the tone, set boundaries early on in fear of driving the person away.

May 16, 2016

Well, don't think of it as bad as you do. I think you held your own. So you sent the last text, so what? Really think about it. Doesn't change things, ie that you did not give him any indication directly that you were open to dating him. If he cannot be the bigger person and wrap up your last text with one back that doesn't want to end on a bad night, so? You are still the bigger person. You did what you want to reach out like that and just have to be comfortable with that.

Let's be honest though you were probably wanting the discussion to continue that's why it bothers you that he did not reply. It sounds like you are both still hooked into each other. Kinda normal. But you will have to ask yourself what you really want. The underlying theme (of both of you) is that you still have unfinished business and are emotionally invested. It sounds like you both still have feelings for one another.

I think you just need to get clear on what you stance really is. If you want to date him, but have reached your limit, come up with what he would need to do in order to get back in. IF you hear from him, then let him know. Do not "wait". If you don't want to be with him let it go. Nothing really to be embarrassed about. I think you just want to have the last word and feel like you don't. I don't think that's true exactly and it doesn't really matter. I think guys don't reply sometimes when they don't know what to say and/or don't want to navigate drama--they will risk it and hope it blows over, especially if not in an actual relationship. You guys technically aren't, even if you both still have feelings for each other. And he pretty much knows that you've said you don't want to be with him and he is moving--so low motivation to "fix" this.

As this relates to social media, since that was the nature of your thread. I still don't think you need to delete or block him, but if you were to do it, now would be the time. If you don't do it, (because you don't feel it's necessary, like i believe), then at same time don't fool yourself if you are secretly holding out hope by leaving that avenue OPEN and keeping tabs on him and allowing him to do same with you. I think if you have your eye on your future and are really done with him, that's possible. Might not be how you are feeling right now though.

I agree with Jabron about adding people to your social media that you are dating. Ugh, no. If you start dating one of the people who ALREADY follows or is a friend of yours, that's different. But if they are not already on your social media, don't add them. Adds unnecessary complications and opens the door for misunderstandings and spying kinda stuff. Good luck

I'm sure it wasn't as bad as I feel like it was. I think I'm just down on myself for crying in front of him. Like I said, I'm strong and I've been through a lot and I hate to let a guy see me cry. I feel like it makes me look weak. I could understand if I was the one who approached him at the brewery and was following him around, or forced myself on him. I'll admit that I overtexted after he accepted my invite to the bar. I was excited to see him and would text to see where is was and how much longer. So honestly, I think that is the only thing I did "wrong". But I'm sure everyone understands what its like when alcohol is involved and you are put in a vulnerable situation. Because like I said, I wanted to avoid having to speak to him altogether and HE was the one who initiated contact.

I do think we both have feelings for each other. I'll admit that and he has said that he has said on multiple occasions, even on Saturday night, that he really likes me. But it hurts that I did try to be the bigger person to rectify the drunken nonsense from the night before and he couldn't even say "no worries" or "thank you" and I don't understand why. I didn't want to keep the conversation going, I just didn't want that to be the last interaction we had. I guess he just doesn't know what to say.

I still don't feel the need to delete or block him but IMO, this is completely done. I told him not to reach out and we will see if he follows through with that. I just want this sucky, embarrassing feeling to go away

May 16, 2016

I think people make it complicated because of fear of screwing up... they are fearful to set the tone, set boundaries early on in fear of driving the person away.

This is exactly on point, at least pertaining to me.

I don't want to scare a guy away because I set boundaries or ask questions up front. Just because I ask a guy if he wants to get married or have kids, that doesn't mean that I want that WITH him RIGHT now. But I would like to go ahead and figure that out, rather than waiting years, only to find out that is not something he wants.

May 16, 2016

I'm sure it wasn't as bad as I feel like it was. I think I'm just down on myself for crying in front of him. Like I said, I'm strong and I've been through a lot and I hate to let a guy see me cry. I feel like it makes me look weak. I could understand if I was the one who approached him at the brewery and was following him around, or forced myself on him. I'll admit that I overtexted after he accepted my invite to the bar. I was excited to see him and would text to see where is was and how much longer. So honestly, I think that is the only thing I did "wrong". But I'm sure everyone understands what its like when alcohol is involved and you are put in a vulnerable situation. Because like I said, I wanted to avoid having to speak to him altogether and HE was the one who initiated contact.

I do think we both have feelings for each other. I'll admit that and he has said that he has said on multiple occasions, even on Saturday night, that he really likes me. But it hurts that I did try to be the bigger person to rectify the drunken nonsense from the night before and he couldn't even say "no worries" or "thank you" and I don't understand why. I didn't want to keep the conversation going, I just didn't want that to be the last interaction we had. I guess he just doesn't know what to say.

I still don't feel the need to delete or block him but IMO, this is completely done. I told him not to reach out and we will see if he follows through with that. I just want this sucky, embarrassing feeling to go away

So I get it that the crying could have been a little embarrassing or the repeated texts from the bar. To me, though it's all kinda rectified by the fact that you have decided you are done with it and tried to end on a good note, not in fighting mode. So if you are done with it, be done with it. You don't need a validation message back from him to confirm he is in agreement. You don't need to wait and see if he follows your instructions not to be in contact (IMO, once you say something like that it would be totally normal to delete them from your social media--you are following your words with your actions. So if you said that, then I think the time has come to delete).

Anyway, this is all in line with respecting your boundaries, I guess. You basically don't even need the other person to be in communication with you to exercise this. You believe in them in theory so that should make the process easier to adhere to. There is no reason to have residual bad feelings or embarrassment if this is the conclusion you have come to. Not to be all hippy dippy, but thank the universe for letting you have clarity and this final information so you can commit to your decision. Good luck

May 16, 2016

Have you thought about how it will feel when he starts posting photos of himself another woman?

At some point he will get meet someone else. That is a reality you will have to face sooner or later. Can you deal with that or will start comparing yourself to her and feeling rejected like it is being rubbed in your face?

It is important to think about the long term impact of staying in touch via social media. I only suggest you think about this now because it sounds like he is still under your skin.

May 20, 2016

Have you thought about how it will feel when he starts posting photos of himself another woman?

At some point he will get meet someone else. That is a reality you will have to face sooner or later. Can you deal with that or will start comparing yourself to her and feeling rejected like it is being rubbed in your face?

It is important to think about the long term impact of staying in touch via social media. I only suggest you think about this now because it sounds like he is still under your skin.

I feel like by the time he meets someone else, I will be over it completely. I don't see that happening in the future.

He reached out to me the other day telling me he hoped I'd let him know when I was in town. I said I would and he said "you better". This was after I told him not to reach out to me anymore.

May 20, 2016

I feel like by the time he meets someone else, I will be over it completely. I don't see that happening in the future.

He reached out to me the other day telling me he hoped I'd let him know when I was in town. I said I would and he said "you better". This was after I told him not to reach out to me anymore.

You told him not to reach out to you anymore.....your annoyed by the snaps hes sends you....his likes on instagram...

Hun, its very simple....block him, delete him, remove him, etc etc

I really dont understand your logic here....if you dont get the fact that this is unhealthy and frankly kind of ridiculous....I dont know what any of us can do for you

May 20, 2016

Yeah.. I don't think you need to block. I never see the point in blocking as you can so easily unblock to snoop. Just delete them off facebook and snapchat.. I doubt he will budger you then.

I recently had to do this and i tell you what. i felt 100 times better. I was terrified of seeing evidence of him with another girl. Its been 3 months and i still think seeing any of that would make me queasy. It will happen with this guy so its probably best to just delete him before you see any of that.

I hate social media as well. While dating it is a nightmare. I have become an absolute pro at social media stalking and I am not proud!!!

fb makes it so easy

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