Silver_star Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 On Friday I went to his place for our fifth date and it was the first time we were at one of our places (pizza making date), so I was thinking we may get closer... So far all of our dates I have had to make the first move to initiate getting closer, touching or holding hands...so I didn't really think we were going to have sex, unless I initiated it. Well he was a lot less shy in private which makes sense so our kissing quickly escalated and we ended up having sex. The sex was good. He gave great oral to me, and I to him, but I have a strong feeling like he is not feeling great about his other performance (he came very fast). He seemed pretty disappointed in himself, and I don't have a problem with it and I told him it was okay, and that he should just relax and enjoy himself, but he was kind of weird/cold afterwards to me. I didn't plan on spending the night as I had other plans next morning, and so we said goodbyes and I left. I didn't hear from him at all until on Sunday when I got a brief text about his run earlier that day. I told him I had a great time on Friday. He was just short in his texts back to me and again haven't heard anything today whereas usually we banter... I don't know where we go from here...is he going to ask me out again? Is that what he wanted?
sunshine2 Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 Wow, sorry that happened to you. Usually if a man gets distant after sex, then that is all that they wanted. But, because he wasn't feeling great about his performance, he might be embarrassed, but Im not sure. I would wait and see if he asks you for another date. If he doesn't you have your answer. 1
Shanex Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 I second what said above I think he's embarrassed about the bad sex. Give a call and maybe try to speak to him about the incident. Otherwise yeah it might just have been hit and run, or ''sex and run''
Miss Peach Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 I would give it a week for him to set up another date. If he can go a week without seeing or making plans then IMO it's best to just assume it's over.
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