Junior23 Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 You guys ever feel like it was meant to be? I don't know maybe it's false hope, I've been in and out of relationships ever since the mother of my child left me.... That was three years ago, all my other exes I'm really cool with but its this one that has me stumped. I can be myself around all my other exes even to the point of casually going out for lunch. but her, well let's say I'm a nervous wreck. We don't talk when we're in the same room even avoid eye contact but by now you'd think we'd feel indifferent toward eachother. I get rhe strongest feeling we're still in love with eachother but our pride and egos are at a constant push me pull. I mean our relationships haven't worked out since we broke up, we still show anger towards eachother but instead of me losing hope because of this it makes me feel like we will get back together as soon as we stop being so damn stupid -.- The other day I posted something on fb about how I hope that one day me and my daughter could have Sunday dinners like I used to have with my family every weekend and her brother (who is still close to me) had put "when it's my turn to cook Ima put laxatives in the food".... Yea it's not my ex but it's nice to see he still views me as family, funny thing is after all she put me thru I still consider everyone in her family part of mine and I seriously would do anything for each of them.... Guess fools can dream right? :\
ExpatInItaly Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 You guys ever feel like it was meant to be? I don't know maybe it's false hope, I've been in and out of relationships ever since the mother of my child left me.... That was three years ago, all my other exes I'm really cool with but its this one that has me stumped. I can be myself around all my other exes even to the point of casually going out for lunch. but her, well let's say I'm a nervous wreck. We don't talk when we're in the same room even avoid eye contact but by now you'd think we'd feel indifferent toward eachother. I get rhe strongest feeling we're still in love with eachother but our pride and egos are at a constant push me pull. I mean our relationships haven't worked out since we broke up, we still show anger towards eachother but instead of me losing hope because of this it makes me feel like we will get back together as soon as we stop being so damn stupid -.- The other day I posted something on fb about how I hope that one day me and my daughter could have Sunday dinners like I used to have with my family every weekend and her brother (who is still close to me) had put "when it's my turn to cook Ima put laxatives in the food".... Yea it's not my ex but it's nice to see he still views me as family, funny thing is after all she put me thru I still consider everyone in her family part of mine and I seriously would do anything for each of them.... Guess fools can dream right? :\ Are you living together? Your post suggests you are. Also, why and how long ago did you break up?
Author Junior23 Posted April 25, 2016 Author Posted April 25, 2016 No we don't live together, I just go often to visit our daughter. We have been broken up for three years
sowhynot Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 Guess fools can dream right? :\ Yeah, include me in on that one. I think it's natural to have those 'it was meant to be' thoughts as it sounds like you shared a lot together. Unfortunately - they're probably just that - thoughts. By the time you realize there's no such thing - or at least very rarely - you'll probably have forgotten about him or met someone new. I like to think that somewhere right now, there's someone out there who I haven't met yet but who is going to be my soulmate one day. And that's the one which is 'meant to be' !
elaine567 Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 Why are you showing anger at each other, why did you break up in the first place?
ExpatInItaly Posted April 25, 2016 Posted April 25, 2016 No we don't live together, I just go often to visit our daughter. We have been broken up for three years Three years? Yeah, it's time to move on for good.
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