dichotomy Posted April 28, 2016 Posted April 28, 2016 (edited) Haha that's funny! You must be a rarity...doesn't like blondes or big boobs, likes nice hips! Most men = no hips, large (fake usually, with actresses and models) breasts, (fake) blonde... Everyone has a type.... like I have mine http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_pi_G1_PKX20/S9efJJkYMcI/AAAAAAAAC8w/TnDRRiavEB0/s800/navel-ileana4.jpg But then just because a brunette with hips is mine does not mean I dont find other women attractive or dated them or married them , but i still stay clear of blonds with big boobs.... mostly Edited April 28, 2016 by dichotomy 1
thecrucible Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 Personally I really don't want to know. I've dated guys who've openly admitted they preferred redheads and other physical types whereas I am brunette and curvy. Obviously these guys were not into me. I don't want to be dating a guy and thinking that he's secretly pining after a different type of woman. 2
Miss Peach Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 I know this is based towards men I've essentially dated a mini-UN. There is nothing outwardly in common with the people I have dated. I've dated mostly men but also a few women. The only thing in common is I tend to go for women with small boobs and long hair. I can't find anything in common on the male side.
basil67 Posted April 29, 2016 Posted April 29, 2016 It's the same for women - there has to be the initial attraction. I don't think this is a bad thing, just nature. Obviously, personalities have to be compatible, but it start with the initial attraction.. Ah, yes there is initial attraction - but don't assume everyone's physical attraction is related to their typ'. Are you only attracted to a man who's your type? My initial attraction depends on their smile, the way they interact with others, body language and posture. 1
Author katie949 Posted April 13, 2017 Author Posted April 13, 2017 Personally I really don't want to know. I've dated guys who've openly admitted they preferred redheads and other physical types whereas I am brunette and curvy. Obviously these guys were not into me. I don't want to be dating a guy and thinking that he's secretly pining after a different type of woman. These are my thoughts exactly! I had the impression that the guy I'm interested in was attracted to me before I started to really like him, but obviously I can't know for certain unless I asked him, which I don't want to do.
Silverstring Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 People who only date their physical type aren't good relationship material anyways because they clearly don't value what is actually important in a relationship. In other words, it doesn't matter what his type is. If you like him ask him out on a date. If he's interested he'll say yes. If he's not interested, you can move your focus onto others who might be... 2
spiderowl Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 The minute you start to try to fit a guy's expectations of what a woman should look like or be is the minute you lose yourself. He should value you for who you are not what you look like. If he doesn't then he's not the right guy for you in the first place. It's easy really. 2
GunslingerRoland Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 My question would be, why does it matter? Most men have a preference for one hair color over others, but man don't end up with a woman of that hair color. Same as you may be a leg man, who ends up with a woman with breasts as her best feature. Unless it's a fetish where the man absolutely can't go without it, you'd hope that these kind of preference things, would be fairly low on someone's list of things to look for in a relationship. 1
DrReplyInRhymes Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 Haha why all the painting brunettes as the 'less attractive types'? Small breasts + brunette does not = dowdy/plain....Mila Kunis, Nina Dobrev, Natalie Portman.... This, right here. Selena Gomez even, Anna Kendrick, the list goes on. My personal preference: Someone like Natalie Portman. That woman is gorgeous, but it's not just the looks that makes her like that. Not like I know her personally or anything, but from what I've read and some of the things she's accomplished, if someone like her put her sights on me, I'd change into whoever she wanted me to be. A lot of you would definitely say: "Don't change, be yourself, etc". **** that noise. I'd be a happy man being who she needed. Not only is that woman gorgeous, she's also smart to boot. That woman is going to change the world with her views someday, mark my words. Her fame is only a catalyst to her ideas for this world. I'm sorry, but I've had a celebrity crush on her since she started acting, although I only thought she was pretty and a great actress at the time, even as Princess Amidala. If your dream/fantasy woman comes up to you and asks you to change so she can be with you, you ****ing do it. It IS just a preference though, that doesn't mean there isn't someone else that would not be your ideal pick who could totally stop you in your tracks.
preraph Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 Look, it's a wasted exercise because what a guy is "into" and what he can get or will settle for are two vastly different things. Ask a guy what type women he's into and he'll tell you the name of a Victoria's Secret model most likely, or a porn star, even worse, rather than what you'd like to hear.
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