ExtraSpice Posted April 24, 2016 Posted April 24, 2016 So I have been doing OLD lately. I message people, we converse, I get their number, we text. Some conversations are very one sided, some are okay and some more engaging. But in almost all cases I am the one who has to start the conversations. I understand in the beginning but having to always do that seems exhausting. Am I just expected to start conversations till we possibly meet or if it seems like I am the only one starting conversations then I should just give up on that one?
Larryville Posted April 24, 2016 Posted April 24, 2016 So I have been doing OLD lately. I message people, we converse, I get their number, we text. Some conversations are very one sided, some are okay and some more engaging. But in almost all cases I am the one who has to start the conversations. Clearly comparing your recent OLD encounters to someone you were with prior, so you reach out to any warm body hoping to find a suitable substitute someone who you were instantly able to connect with in the early stages, and it is not happening. Communication should flow and not be forced and always remember not all women who are on an OLD site are there to actually meet anyone. Someone who is truly invested in meeting you will ask questions of you and if they don't you are nothing more that a vehicle to alleviate boredom. Bottom line: Do a better job at vetting the people you meet online. There are a lot of clues if you read someone's profile that will tell you their ability to be able to properly communicate and engage you in a meaningful way. Don't put too much mental energy into any one person from OLD.
Author ExtraSpice Posted April 24, 2016 Author Posted April 24, 2016 Bottom line: Do a better job at vetting the people you meet online. There are a lot of clues if you read someone's profile that will tell you their ability to be able to properly communicate and engage you in a meaningful way. Don't put too much mental energy into any one person from OLD. I think you are right, I need to tell early on who to engage with and who not to engage with. And save my mental energy. Thanks
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