I want my ex back

[Allansmall]

Hi there my names allan,I recently left my ex because of money problems,I lost my job and she paid for most things and in time I could not take this and thought she would be better off without me,we loved each other very much,so much so she often said she never felt like this before,everything was fantastic,she even asked me to marry her and I said yes I would,but then I got stupid and left,biggest mistake I ever made in my life,I tried to win her back but she said the love died when I walked out,so now less than a week later she moved her ex in,she told me she was with him for 4 years,but the relationship went very stale,see was bad,they never talked much and she wished she had left him alot earlier,he even chased her around the home with a baseball bat,but never hit her,and now she's moved him in with her,she's told me to move on,but I don't because I'm so in love with her and always will be,how do I try to get her back,I know I'm an idiot for leaving her,believe me I'm paying a heavy price

[ashley1992]

if it's meant to be it will work out. it's looks like a very hard situation. From personal experiance if the love has died or gone it's hard to get that feeling back but is also possible. it looks like she has made up her mind.. I have a feeling when she has problems with her boyfriend (ex) she might communicate with u because that's when she will realise... so in the mean time focus on ur self

[ExpatInItaly]

It's over, OP.

 

Don't waste your time. She's already got another man living with her; that's all you need to know.

 

Time for you to start detaching so you can move on.