mmx Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 I have been hanging out with a guy. A three weekends ago we hung out and made out and cuddled. I stated later via text that I did like him and he said that he enjoyed our time together and always liked chatting with me. Two weekends ago we made out and cuddled again. He said that my body language is hard to read and that he is trying. How can I not make my body language hard to read? Do you think he is still figuring out if he likes me?
smackie9 Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 I don't think your body language is too hard to read, I think he is too shy to move forward with this. It might be time to be be more verbal with him....tell him how cute he is, etc. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted April 22, 2016 Posted April 22, 2016 It's hard to say without actually seeing your body language. For example, do you sit with crossed arms? When he touches you, do you reciprocate? Do you initiate touches? You might need to ask him to clarify what he's referring to. It sounds like he's trying to figure out if you like him.
Buddhist Posted April 22, 2016 Posted April 22, 2016 No. I think he is playing with you and attempting to make you feel as if his lack of giving in the relationship is somehow your fault. Walk away before he does you head in.
PrettyEmily77 Posted April 22, 2016 Posted April 22, 2016 He's very insecure / he's manipulating you a bit so you're the one initiating sex then if things don't work out, he can deny responsibility and put it all on you / he is grooming to validate him constantly / whatever else. If you think time and or talking to him can change that, then give it a shot if you think he's worth it. IME though, truly stable guys tend to stay that way as you get to know them better; insecure / mind-fkuc experts tend to get worse with time. 1
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