Bluboy Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 (edited) Recently asked a girl out. I felt she was going to say yes but short story she said would let me know. I took that as a no, and said you know where to find me when you change your mind... And moved on. Few days ago, I had an awkward encounter with her that left me standing when she knew very well I was there because of her. The past few days, though, she has been acting weird and I want to make sure it is not me who is imaging things. What weird things you say? Like showing up in my vicinity when there is no point being there. I am talking about squeezing through an entrance that is inaccessible and walking around me to say Hi. Or leaving all that she is doing and come pass by me. She has also been asking how my day is going so many times. This seem normal but last time she asked how my day was going 2 times in less than hour. She is also doing some random hand waving and suddenly want to talk when I come close to her and very excited when we talk. I used to get a lot of smiles from her before I asked her out... Now she has upped that up 10 fold, it is beginning to even creep me out. I have recently reduced my contacts with her so I can focus on meeting someone who likes me. It is within this period that all these things I have described keep showing up. What do you make of these behaviors? Are they normal? She doesn't look like the attention grabbing type so this confuses me a bit. What do you make of the above. Any advice on how to proceed? I like her and I thought she liked me too that is why I asked her out. Edited April 21, 2016 by Bluboy
The_Dork_Lard Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 I said you know where to find me when you change your mind ...and found you, she has. As smackie9 said, ask her out again. 1
TXGuy Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 She was indifferent at first and I think you did the right thing by letting her go. It appears she now wants you to start chasing her again, but she doesn't want to come out and say it. She wants to keep bumping into you until you ask her out again. Without asking her out, there is no way to know whether she would say yes or if she is just start jerking your chain again. The ladies on the forum have suggested you ask her out again. I'd let her go unless she was willing to tell me she decided she wanted to go out after all.
Buddhist Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 She's a passive person. This is her way of 'finding you when she changes her mind'. Clearly she's changed her mind and is prompting you for another invitation.
Author Bluboy Posted April 22, 2016 Author Posted April 22, 2016 She's a passive person. This is her way of 'finding you when she changes her mind'. Clearly she's changed her mind and is prompting you for another invitation. OK. I will ask her out again. Got suggestion as to how best to go about it? I would rather she says no rather than leave me hanging
Author Bluboy Posted April 22, 2016 Author Posted April 22, 2016 Simply as her out again. Are you a woman? If you got yourself in this kind of situation, how would you want the guy to ask you out next time? Any suggestions?
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