insert_name Posted April 22, 2016 Posted April 22, 2016 It's gross. Even if she's super hot, it kills her appeal. Yep, on the one hand you could argue, as the poster did previously, that she is entitled to do what she is doing and there is no issue with her telling you to your face....and yet, to me there really seems something disrespectful about being so 'in your face' about it. I don't think she is being nice at all by being so transparent. Perhaps there is a more tactful way of broaching it? Maybe it all comes down to intention: I believe there are some girls out there who would tell you because it is in YOUR best interests to know to save you from hurt and then there are girls who would tell you because they want you to know how desirable they are and to play a game that boosts their ego, basically it is their best interests at heart when they tell you. Hard to tell with this girl, but in my case she was definitely telling me for her own delight. In that sense it is better if they say nothing at all or subtley intimate that they aren't ready to commit yet than tell you outright to your face that they are seeing others.
truth_seeker Posted April 22, 2016 Posted April 22, 2016 Yep, on the one hand you could argue, as the poster did previously, that she is entitled to do what she is doing and there is no issue with her telling you to your face....and yet, to me there really seems something disrespectful about being so 'in your face' about it. I don't think she is being nice at all by being so transparent. Perhaps there is a more tactful way of broaching it? Maybe it all comes down to intention: I believe there are some girls out there who would tell you because it is in YOUR best interests to know to save you from hurt and then there are girls who would tell you because they want you to know how desirable they are and to play a game that boosts their ego, basically it is their best interests at heart when they tell you. Hard to tell with this girl, but in my case she was definitely telling me for her own delight. In that sense it is better if they say nothing at all or subtley intimate that they aren't ready to commit yet than tell you outright to your face that they are seeing others. She doesn't sound like a high quality person. What a nice conversation to have with someone. "I just wanted you to know not only am I swapping spit with you, but I'm also doing it with another guy, too. If that's a problem, we can stop. If not, I'm happy to continue with this arrangement." I'm sure she felt better getting this off her chest. With a girl like her, on the spot I would lose all interest in her and not take her seriously anymore. At best, she would be an option if I were very horny and wanted a quickie. The only good thing to come out of this is the OP now knows how she operates. Just think: Monday she's banging Joe silly and on Tuesday she's cuddling with OP.
morrowrd Posted April 23, 2016 Posted April 23, 2016 Win what? She isnt a prize. She isnt even worth it based on what he is telling us. Brah, I may be old school, and i dont live Murica, when I date someone, I date exclusively, I dont want to put my stuff into some punani that has been receiving multi stuff, from who knows where. Competition exists whether or not you like it.
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