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Here's my story. Hoping for some advice.

 

I've recently become interested in someone at my workplace. We don't really work much together, but we've managed to chat a bit with each other because she sits close to me. I have a closer work relationship with her neighbor, who sits right next to her. They do a lot of "girl-talking". Since my interest in her, I managed to find out she was seeing someone, but was not really that serious about him. Things have been progressing for me, getting to know her more through talking, and having lunch with her. She never mentioned anything about being in a relationship during our conversations. If anything, she seems to hint at the fact that either she's not in a relationship, or not in a serious one. I would go as far to say that she was trying to hide the fact she is seeing someone, at least in front of me.

A few days ago, we chatted and I asked her about her weekend. She said she went to visit friends in Atlanta over the weekend. She even gave a brief story about how her friends got married, had a baby, and how they work for CNN. No mention about a boyfriend. Today, through her neighbor and my coworker friend, I found out her "not so serious" relationship became "exclusive" over the weekend. It's assumed that the guy lives in Atlanta.

My questions are....

1) Am I just confused, or is it possible she might be interested in me? Do women try to hide the fact they are seeing someone if they are interested in you? Why not just say, I'm seeing someone?

2) Why didn't she just say, "I went to Atlanta to see my guy"?

3) Should I just give up pursuing her? If she's now in an "exclusive" relationship, do I even have a chance?

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Asking those questions about the weekend should mention about a SO in their lives

 

I eould read her not directly mentioning a boyfriend to you could mean she has some interest.

 

It seems this other relationship is in it's early stages so talking about it is something some people just font like to do.

 

I usually don't talk about people I've had a few dates with/casual dates. I usually only talk about something that is a bf/gf relationship.

 

If you are interested in her--- bring it up over lunch. Do it in a way that kind of protects you since you seem to have a friendship, you can bring up getting together on Saturday.

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