Dani23G Posted April 20, 2016 Posted April 20, 2016 Okay so me and guy use to talk before, long story short, he was telling me that he liked me and had feelings for me and I did too, little did I know that he was still talking to his ex and they were "fixing things" out while he was talking to me. I was so mad that I blocked him off of everything and when I saw him I ignored him!I want to say maybe like a few months later, I got tired of the hate and I decided to unblock him and I started talking to him to see how he was doing. I found out that him and his ex were not together anymore. Let me get to the point, I asked him out on a date and he said yes! After that we started hanging out more, texting everyday, he calls me hun, love, and boo, and tells me goodnight and good morning! Always tells me that he cares about me, that he worries so much, tells me that he's here for me, that he won't hurt me, and he considers me his "best friend"! Everything to me seemed right like I honestly feel so safe with him and I actually felt like he really meant it and yes I started liking him again! So we recently hung out, and I was going to ask him straight up if he had some feelings for me or what because I was just curious to know if I meant something more to him like he said I do! Then he was singing this song that meant a lot to him, he dropped me off but before I got out of his car I needed to know if he still had feelings for his ex because I knew that song was about his ex! I asked him if he still loves her he just looked at me and said nothing. The next day he told me straight up that he misses her and that he still loves her! I never asked him if he had feelings for me or anything like that! It confuses me because he proves that he cares about me but then again there's his ex!Should I still keep seeing him or should I just leave him alone?
Michaelroyale Posted April 20, 2016 Posted April 20, 2016 Hi dani I think you need to be a little careful it's more then likely your relationship with him is a rebound... sounds like she has probably finished the relationship with him? and he still as feelings for her which is understandable, give him space and just remain friends at the moment and allow that friendship to grow slowly.. Best of luck 1
loveisanaction Posted April 20, 2016 Posted April 20, 2016 Honestly, i would leave him alone. If he's told you that he still loves and misses his ex, he's not lying. It probably explains why he's spending time with you, he's using you as an emotional crutch. Him and his ex seem to be going through something and if they ever fix what it is that is that they're going through, you will be history. There is phrase that says...When the desirable isn't available the available becomes desirable. 1
Gloria25 Posted April 20, 2016 Posted April 20, 2016 Honestly, i would leave him alone. If he's told you that he still loves and misses his ex, he's not lying. It probably explains why he's spending time with you, he's using you as an emotional crutch. Him and his ex seem to be going through something and if they ever fix what it is that is that they're going through, you will be history. There is phrase that says...When the desirable isn't available the available becomes desirable. I agree with most of what you said, but he didn't look her up - the OP did. That's another sign that he's still into the ex. If he was over the ex, he might have looked you up. Yea, and the "available/desirable" thing? Yep, that's sure true - even if you aren't a rebound.
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