Luc12 Posted April 20, 2016 Posted April 20, 2016 Me and my girlfriend of 4 months have been struggling. We are getting into a lot of arguments this week (everyday). It sucks because I want everything to okay between us but for some reason it's not been. We will fight, make up, then fight the next day. We are with eachother everyday because of work.. too not sure if that plays a factor. I love her so much and I don't want to look at this as an end. But I can't take the fighting all the time. I hate it when we fight because it consumes every Though I have all day which stresses me out.. And right now I can't take anymore stress. I don't know what to do..
clia Posted April 20, 2016 Posted April 20, 2016 You've been dating her four months and are already fighting every day. Do you think it's going to get better? You two are not compatible. You should end the relationship and go find a girl who you aren't fighting with all the time.
scooby-philly Posted April 20, 2016 Posted April 20, 2016 Ok - I wouldn't rush to conclusions.....I wouldn't advocate that you two are incompatible just because you're arguing. You really didn't provide that much information such as: - Level of hostility (is there yelling, physicality, walking away, etc - Issues - stupid stuff, important stuff, mix - Who starts it - What you both try to do to fix it - etc Arguing in the first few months (even the more gentle, less heated variety) isn't a good thing - but it's not a bad thing either. Couples that never argue (some might say disagree) are either shallow or swallow their anger/hatred/disgust/disappointment. So if you can provide more information around the stuff I listed above then we can give better advice. 1
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