pookiejones Posted June 18, 2005 Posted June 18, 2005 what does this email mean?: "ive been debating whether to email you with what i have to say because i find email so impersonal and i absolutely dont want to be impersonal but i feel that to be fair to you i need to share with you what ive been thinking. im sorry it took so long, but i told you i take a long time to process things! and then i couldnt decide whether to wait to talk to you in person, face to face when you get back. i hope you agree with my decision about emailing you. I want to tell you how important our connection and your friendship is to me. i cant beleive we were strangers that morning! i feel like ive known you forever. You are a truly unique person, its so rare to find someone as special as you, someone who i feel comfortable around, someone who brings out the best in me. i dont want to change this by being too physical, so many things chould change and what we have is so pure. i felt less comfortable after we kissed that night, and you seemed hesitant. i definately dont regret anything, please never think that. But i want our special friendship to last and for us to be completely comfortable around each other, always. Thankyou for understanding and being so patient. Cant wait to see you again."
agnf666 Posted June 18, 2005 Posted June 18, 2005 From what I read... It sounds to me they don't wan't to lose there friendship to you over a physical relationship. So, he just doesn't want to wreck the friendship he has. Since you where a little hesitate with the kiss then he is afraid that things might change. You need to decided if you want to be more then friends or just friends. Sounds like he is confused as well!
Author pookiejones Posted June 18, 2005 Author Posted June 18, 2005 did he basically tell me he just wants to be friends?
agnf666 Posted June 18, 2005 Posted June 18, 2005 Originally posted by pookiejones i dont want to change this by being too physical, so many things chould change and what we have is so pure. i felt less comfortable after we kissed that night, and you seemed hesitant. i definately dont regret anything, please never think that. But i want our special friendship to last and for us to be completely comfortable around each other, always. Your friend ship and connection is really important. So, he doesn't want to lose that. He wants your "Special Friendship" to last forever. Meaning that he wants to be friends. That's why he had a hard time writing the email to you. He knew that you felt wierd kissing him and that made him uncomfortable. So, he decided that the physical relationship probably won't work.
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