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I've been with my girlfriend for almost 9 months now. I love her and want things to work but she has depression and its been getting worse for the last half of our relationship.

Her and her family have told me to just give her time until it passes and I really want to be there for her but I don't know how much longer I can do this.

She gets jealous all the time and worries that I’ll leave her for someone else but at the same time she tells me she doesn't love me anymore and keeps becoming more distant.

Shes also always either cold towards me or outright mad and we keep getting into fights more and more. Then she threatens to leave me or to find someone else.

I feel so lonely anymore and no longer feel like I have a girlfriend. And on top of that I do everything I can to try to help her but no mater what I do for her as soon as I’m not able to do something she wants she keeps getting mad and telling me that I’m never there for her and never do anything for her.

I want to try to make things work and I don't know how much of the problem is because of the depression so hate the idea of just walking away when shes at such a low point but at the same time I don't know if things will really get better again or not and I’m afraid i'll just end up getting hurt anyway. Plus I’m really starting to feel horrible in this relationship.

I'm not sure what to do anymore.

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You're only dating. And for only 9 months at that. She doesn't seem stable enough--depression or not--to even be in a relationship.

 

Go your separate ways. You're not happy and she needs to get help and more stability.

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Bro, you've got to get out of there. I was in a similar situation. The girl treated me like crap towards the end, broke things off and then tried to keep in contact with me...i definitely wasn't going for that. Cut her loose. No need to be arguing and letting another person make you feel down.

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Well its over now. Wasn't even my doing.

I hope it truly is for the best because i really do love this girl.

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I think it's the best for you, no lies.

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